Everything From the ridiculous amount of toys and lingerie I’ve bought to joining this forum I started having sex for the first time this year and I was pretty asexual before meeting my partner so it’s all new to me
I also delved into anal play. I was always under the impression that anal play for males was considered taboo and not really something I would feel comfortable doing. I couldn’t be any more wrong. I have come to the conclusion that you can’t help what you enjoy. I have also realised I shouldn’t have pre conceived ideas of what people think of me. If you are getting into Anal play I fully recommend this set I bought. All essential pieces for clean and gentle anal fun https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/butt-plugs/butt-plug-sets/p/basics-anal-play-butt-plug-kit-4-piece/a39556g72532.html
Probably anal toys in general for me. I bought one butt plug and I was like “yeah I’m going to use this once and hate it”, and turns out, I loved it lol. So now I have a huge amount of anal toys including butt plugs, tails, anal beads, dildos, etc. The big plugs really intrigue me lol.
I came from a household which is quite conservative and they all hated the idea of something going in their anus so it ingrained it in my mind that anal is bad.
Everything from toys to lingerie.
This past year our sex life has gone from me hiding under the covers so he wouldn’t look at me, to me wearing lingerie for him, letting him look at me in bra sets and not feel self-conscious, and touch me and enjoying the feeling of hands on my body and not thinking is he turned on or off.
We’ve experienced so much this year, and we’re both enjoying it so much. Exploring all kinds of sexual fantasies. Finding LH has given me so much more confidence in myself and my wonderful hubby has too. And we’re loving the Dom/sub role
Have to say, 2021 has been a bit of a strange one for me and GF.
In general, kink levels dropped due to some circumstances, and going through a bit of a general dry spell right now for various reasons.
However, we did have a few ‘firsts’ which really brightened things up!
We had some fun in the woods for the first time this year, which wasn’t planned and made it all the better. Not as simple as it sounds for a part time wheelchair user, and lessons learnt for when it gets a little warmer!
Like a few comments above, started a bit of solo anal exploration this year, and certainly something that will continue.
Mrs_Kink also treated me to a night of fun with my butt - was really good experience, and hopefully one we’ll get to repeat at some point. Have to say had a few nerves at the time, I think for us both, but I hope she feels brave enough to do again.
Nipple clamps rock, dont go strait for clover clamps though as those things means serious business and are more of something you have to work up to. The tweezer style are a good first pick though
Joined this forum a couple of months ago and really enjoying the wife uploading lingerie images on here. Bought some anal toys for the first time which was new to me.
I’ve gone back to basics after entering my 1st monogamous relationship in 16 years. My new partner is new to sex toys so I’ve slowly introduced toys such as basic cock rings, feather tickler, bullet vibe and lube.
Considering he was adamant about introducing anything sex toy related into the relationship, he’s not doing to badly. He loves using cock rings now. I’m hoping he’ll become comfortable to use toys on me.
Me and my partner have just started getting in to sex toys. Started the year with the rabbit cock ring as a surprise for my girlfriend, we love this little toy! We also have a brand new dream rabbit g spot vibrator, was another surprise for my girlfriend!
Will look to add to the collection next year so any recommendations would be good. Do prefer rechargeable toys!!
This kind of project is definitely something the forum users can help with
I’d suggest posting this question as a new thread and explaining a bit more about what you both enjoy.
I‘m sure you‘ll get some great suggestions.