It must be the heat! I'm melting, I've got to go to stupid work in a bit , yet all I can think of is my husband's hands, tracing up and down my spine while I was snaking my tongue down his body yesterday afternoon while the fan was blowing cold air over our dripping, straight from the shower bodies.
Tongue, definitely! It's all warm and wet, what's not to like? There have been occasions though during foreplay where after a while, and once I'm wet/lubed up enough, I've mistaken his fingers for his tongue, and it's not until I happen to open my eyes I even notice.
It has to be both for me too.
This thread is making me horny as hell!!
SG69
This question kind of bothered me, I think partly because why choose between them at all, and partly because I can't answer questions about just any random fingers or tongues because I haven't experienced them all.
I think that fingers and tongue are sort of like cake and ice cream. They can be lovely on their own, and lovely together. I think that choosing between them is unnecessary and pointless.
Also, everybody's fingers and tongues are not automatically all going to be the same. I am much more interested in the person behind the fingers and tongue than I am in those specific body parts in isolation.
What I really like is a person who has an sincere interest in my pleasure, and who is emotionally healthy enough to take my guidance about what I like without throwing a hissy fit thinking I'm impugning their sexual prowess. Cos that happens way more often than it should, in my opinion.
So there. :p
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Nexas wrote:
It's never just a yes or no with you is it? :-p
(Totally kidding hun LOL)
Nope. :p
Lubyanka wrote:
This question kind of bothered me, I think partly because why choose between them at all, and partly because I can't answer questions about just any random fingers or tongues because I haven't experienced them all.
I think that fingers and tongue are sort of like cake and ice cream. They can be lovely on their own, and lovely together. I think that choosing between them is unnecessary and pointless.
Also, everybody's fingers and tongues are not automatically all going to be the same. I am much more interested in the person behind the fingers and tongue than I am in those specific body parts in isolation.
What I really like is a person who has an sincere interest in my pleasure, and who is emotionally healthy enough to take my guidance about what I like without throwing a hissy fit thinking I'm impugning their sexual prowess. Cos that happens way more often than it should, in my opinion.
So there. :p
What type of cake?
A submissive cake that takes instruction well! Possibly a piece of sponge cake as something like Ginger cake is anti authoriterian!
SG69 x
I love fingers inside me while the thumb is rubbing my clit yummy!!!
cheekylittleminx wrote:
I love fingers inside me while the thumb is rubbing my clit yummy!!!
Oh yes CLM! I'll be doing some of this to my OH later. . . . .
SG69 x
I cant choose just one, depends on what mood im in and where we was at etc i suppose. But eithers very good from my OH
xx
It's been so long I can't remember! (Well, like a month. Still though :P)
I'm not a fan of being fingered generally, so I think if I *had* to choose one way that I'd be stimulated forever I'd say just tongue, no fingers. Both can be nice, but also it can be a bit too much.
And this thread has made me whimper with desire. Roll on the weekend, says I!
I have never been with a guy who was any good at clitoral stimulation with his fingers. He was either way off the mark, his nails were jaggy, he tugged the clit hood back and aggressively rubbed my clit (that is painful!) or he did the ultimately daft move of trying to simulate a vibrator by 'shaking' his hand on my pussy... what the hell is that? Do guys pick these absurd moves up from porn or something? It doesnt feel nice.
I like tongue-only during oral, especially if said tongue is pierced! I like my partner's face to be buried in my pussy as if they were french kissing it, gently tonguing my clit in a kind of sealed wetness from their lips and mine. Hate having my clit sucked though, thats a horrible sensation. Usually if they try to involve their hands it means pulling their mouth away and kind of having to 'lap like a dog' while they finger me, I'm really not a fan of that.
I do enjoy penetrative fingering though, it's really nice having my g-spot massaged while kissing or having my nipples sucked.
cheekylittleminx wrote:
I love fingers inside me while the thumb is rubbing my clit yummy!!!
I hate that! Just goes to show how differant all women are.
Hmm..difficult one to answer - I think it would depend on how turned on I was, and if anything else was being done to me at the time! But if I was massively turned on I mean like my ultimate fantasy man of my dreams making love to me, either and in either order but I think after using his hand, if I hadn't come, then licking me would definitely make me cum. And my god would I scream lol
Depends whose fingers/tongue it is! I would say tongue, but I've been spoilt in that respect - one guy I've been with loved using his tongue and was quite a pro. I'd never orgasmed so quickly before or since!
Miss_V wrote:
cheekylittleminx wrote:
I love fingers inside me while the thumb is rubbing my clit yummy!!!
I hate that! Just goes to show how differant all women are.
Hi Miss V! My OH loves having me rub her clit with my thumb whilst my index finger is massaging her g spot and. . . .my middle finger is inside her arse. All 3 fingers are moving simultaneously whilst I suck her nipples. External Media
SG69 x
SEXYGET 69 wrote:
Miss_V wrote:
cheekylittleminx wrote:
I love fingers inside me while the thumb is rubbing my clit yummy!!!
I hate that! Just goes to show how differant all women are.
Hi Miss V! My OH loves having me rub her clit with my thumb whilst my index finger is massaging her g spot and. . . .my middle finger is inside her arse. All 3 fingers are moving simultaneously whilst I suck her nipples. External Media
SG69 x
Is your OH a bowling ball? Sorry! Haha =^.^=
Miss_V wrote:
SEXYGET 69 wrote:
Hi Miss V! My OH loves having me rub her clit with my thumb whilst my index finger is massaging her g spot and. . . .my middle finger is inside her arse. All 3 fingers are moving simultaneously whilst I suck her nipples. External Media
SG69 x
Is your OH a bowling ball? Sorry! Haha =^.^=
Very good! Well, She might as well be MV! I have to put the bum finger in first, then the pussy one and then push them aaaalllll the way in to get the proper grip on. Sounds a bit horrific there but she does love it. . . .I think!External MediaLOL
SG69 x
SEXYGET 69 wrote:
Miss_V wrote:
SEXYGET 69 wrote:
Hi Miss V! My OH loves having me rub her clit with my thumb whilst my index finger is massaging her g spot and. . . .my middle finger is inside her arse. All 3 fingers are moving simultaneously whilst I suck her nipples. External Media
SG69 x
Is your OH a bowling ball? Sorry! Haha =^.^=
Very good! Well, She might as well be MV! I have to put the bum finger in first, then the pussy one and then push them aaaalllll the way in to get the proper grip on. Sounds a bit horrific there but she does love it. . . .I think!External MediaLOL
SG69 x
That reminds me of an embaressing story a male friend once told me - he was on his bed with his then girlfriend and they were kissing and he was fingering her, but in their passion she manages to writhe her way to the edge of the bed and actually slipped off. She was only saved from thumbing into the floor by him actually catching her 'by the vagina'. He had hooked his finger inside her and was holding her up like that with his other arm round her shoulders... at this point in the story I was nearly pissing myself laughing as I pictured him 'wearing her like a baseball glove'... hahahaha....