One for the girls! What do you prefer fingers or tongue clitoral stimulation?

Bloody ouch! Sounds painful MV. Good catch though!

SG69 x

Miss_V wrote:

I have never been with a guy who was any good at clitoral stimulation with his fingers. He was either way off the mark, his nails were jaggy, he tugged the clit hood back and aggressively rubbed my clit (that is painful!) or he did the ultimately daft move of trying to simulate a vibrator by 'shaking' his hand on my pussy... what the hell is that? Do guys pick these absurd moves up from porn or something? It doesnt feel nice.

I'd say a lot of guys would say the same about girls giving them hand jobs! The thing about manual stimulation is that we're so good and practiced at doing it ourselves, that nothing ever really feels 100% perfect when someone else does it.

Definitely agree though that some men haven't a notion what they're doing. Shaking? That just sounds bizzare. I do love having my pussy spanked though :P

I'm a both kinda girl. I love a good tonguing though, its the imtimacy of having the OH's face so up close. Just the thought turns me on.

Finger and clit, l rest my case.

TB

hmmm a tough one, id probably say fingers although i like it pretty rough, but then again i like fingers inside whilst been licked aswell

Greedy greedy ladies!

SEXYGET 69 wrote:


My OH loves having me rub her clit with my thumb whilst my index finger is massaging her g spot and. . . .my middle finger is inside her arse. All 3 fingers are moving simultaneously whilst I suck her nipples. External Media

I love the sound of this, mmmmmm. I hope I can get my OH to give it a try.

Oh, and its fingers all the way for me. I've never come with a tongue... yet?!

I think a combination of manual stimulation and tongue works well. My OH loves to relax and let me gently finger her g-spot while circling and licking her clit with my tongue, it seems to work for her. However, it is quite an individual thing.

I'm luck my man can milti-task well. I like it when he goes down on me licking and nibbiling my clit, with two fingers in my pussy and his little finger up my ass. He then reaches up with his other hand and plays with my nipples.....mmmm!!!

Puppies77 wrote:

I'm luck my man can milti-task well. I like it when he goes down on me licking and nibbiling my clit, with two fingers in my pussy and his little finger up my ass. He then reaches up with his other hand and plays with my nipples.....mmmm!!!

I'm with you puppies, but I like to play with my nipples so both are tweaked at the same time and so his free hand can get a good grip on my hip :o)

Firecracker wrote:

Puppies77 wrote:

I'm luck my man can milti-task well. I like it when he goes down on me licking and nibbiling my clit, with two fingers in my pussy and his little finger up my ass. He then reaches up with his other hand and plays with my nipples.....mmmm!!!

I'm with you puppies, but I like to play with my nipples so both are tweaked at the same time and so his free hand can get a good grip on my hip :o)

:D Oh yes!

Nexas wrote:

Puppies77 wrote:

I'm luck my man can milti-task well. I like it when he goes down on me licking and nibbiling my clit, with two fingers in my pussy and his little finger up my ass. He then reaches up with his other hand and plays with my nipples.....mmmm!!!

Pretty much exactly what I like doing ^_^

Ya see...men can multi task when they try External Media

Nexas wrote:

LOL I am admittedly terrible at multi-tasking at things which don't hold my interest...

Lucky I absolutely LOVE going down on women so I can quite happily use both hands and my tongue perfectly well LOL

:D

hotmum wrote:

Andserkiel wrote:

Deff prefer a tongue on my clit but fingers inside at the same time is heaven.

i agree with that xx

me too ;)

My girls an Anti-Andserkiel!

She'd much prefer the tongue in/on her pussy with the fingers on the clit, much to my preference too.

I'm another greedy girl. Love being warmed up with tongue at first...but there comes a point where I need to feel fingers inside too

I've only recieved oral sex once (from my boyfriend of course) as he doesn't like doing it. So I prefer finger stimulation. =)

As long as your happy Lara! But I'm sure he could be persuaded to give it another go!

Little Lady wrote:

I've only recieved oral sex once (from my boyfriend of course) as he doesn't like doing it. So I prefer finger stimulation. =)

Aw hun, I'd be gutted. What is it he doesn't like?? I'm sure there could be ways around it External Media

I asked him what it is and he said he just isn't into it as much as he used to be. Of course I questioned him if it was me and he reassured me that it isn't.

Yes, I am sure there will be ways in future! But any tips will be great! ;)