Hiya,
About 6 months ago I suggested an open relationship to my partner of 7 years. Before that we had been exclusive.
My main reasons for the suggestion has been to benefit our relationship. That may sound odd to many. I mean in a way that we shouldn't take each other for granted. I have also always been tempted to be sexual with other people whilst in a relationship, but never acted on it. So my thinking was, if we took away the barriers and were able to enjoy our fantasies, that can only be great for us as a couple!
So 6 months in and it's going really well, we are making more to e for each Other, our sex lives are better than ever and we are way more adventurous. I believe it is down to the open relationship. My close friends who know about this just don't understand it and think it's really strange. In their eyes they think we shouldn't want our partner to be having sex with someone else.
I wanted to get your opinions out of curiosity?