Orgasm Army Recommends - Toys for Couples

Sex Tips & Talk
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Following on from Hella's theme:

A thread to list our fave couples toys!

To start then:

Durex 2 in 1 lube - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=6016

You can't beat a good lube! Versatile liquids they are but this made even better by it's dual function, not the greatest lube or massage liquid but it strikes a good balance and probably offers some of the best value based on bottle size and price. I think it works even better watered down too!

Body Pens - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8389

These of course require some inventive thought but they can be used in lots of fun places to direct a partner or just enjoy that extra bit of sweetness! Light hearted fun on a naked partner. Whoop!

Vibrawhip Crop - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=7837

Discontinued! I think almost everyone raved about these when they went down to a fiver but I think the initial price was off putting. Great for light bondage and the vibes made it a little bit kinkier. One of our faves, shame it didn't work out as well as it should of!

Cloning! - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=5916 , http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2448

The female one isn't very useful and the male one went a bit wrong for us. The strength in these products is the fun making them and the naughtiness of having your own personalised sex toy! Ladies, ever wanted that DP from your partner? Why not make another cock!

Spankage! - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15736 , http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15817

A flogger and paddle, both with a lovely soft red suede. Out of the spanky collection we have amassed it's these relatively cheap Bondage Boutique items that have taken the top spots! Both were presents so thank you very much lovely people! I find the flogger is nice for lighter play and the paddle has two different textures that spank a buttock so well!

Corset, lingerie - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16657

I could have chosen many of the lingerie Ad has but what makes some lingerie such a great item for couples is the confidence it inspires. It might not directly add to play but watching your OH strut her stuff while oozing confidence and sex appeal makes for great sex!

Nipple clamps - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=4948

A bit naughty and can be used in other places!

Feather - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15808

A luxurious soft teaser to get your partner shivering and eventually gagging for it!

Pinwheel - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16483

Perhaps more effective for us since my partner has nerve/pain issues! Each pin resides in the murky boundary between pleasure and pain. Great for a game of Doctors and nurses too!

Monogamy - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=662

We have only played this once but after an initial feeling of 'knobishness' I really found this game a great way to provide easy ideas to me and my partner. It was way more fun than I expected! I'd really suggest this for couples.

We-Vibe - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14504

And so we reach the We-Vibe! It appears to be a bit hit and miss for some proportions but we found it excellent! Stimulates both the G-Spot and clit and penis, different functions and got the job done rather easily so to speak! Big thumbs up from me!

Phew... All done, feel free to add your ideas and suggestions... I probably have more that have eluded me at the moment.

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Brilliant thread to start, WandA, and so detailed. I'll have to have a think, because you seem to have a lot covered there.

Perhaps the more kinkier members can chip in some items from their BDSM closets or a few couples could list some items that are 'newbie friendly' when you're partner isn't so au fait with all things buzzy and lovely.

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Why thank you TL, not as detailed as I wanted but I tried not to write an actual review!

You raise a very good point about newbies... From my perverted little perspective I forgot about 'em.

So for newbies from the above lists I'd suggest some lingerie, a feather, Monogamy and the Durex lube.

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I don't think the pinwheel link is working.

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Grrrr.... It's included the space as part of the link on a few:

Durex 2 in 1 lube - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=6016

Body Pens - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8389

Vibrawhip Crop - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=7837

Cloning! - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=5916 , http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2448

Spankage! - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15736 , http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15817

Corset, lingerie - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16657

Nipple clamps - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=4948

Feather - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15808

Pinwheel - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16483

Monogamy - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=662

We-Vibe - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14504

Think that's 'em fixed

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Cheers, m'dear. Oh, it's a wartenburg wheel. I've heard a lot about them. Some people say that it really feels like one is being cut, without the actual injury. Not my bag but it could be great on mini pizzas.

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Tigerlilies wrote:

Cheers, m'dear. Oh, it's a wartenburg wheel. I've heard a lot about them. Some people say that it really feels like one is being cut, without the actual injury. Not my bag but it could be great on mini pizzas.

I couldn't be arsed writing more than pinwheel at the time... Ad likes it, but as mentioned she has dodgy nerves. It is a strange pain/pleasure/tickle sensation. I wouldn't agree with the cutting sensation, that would freak me out if I felt it. It's not really my thing but 'discomfort' toys such as spankers and pinwheels aren't really enjoyable for me... Fun using it though!External Media Not on mini pizzas... it was apparently rather nice on the plumpness of the outer labia.

I would write a review but mine was much cheaper off the popular auction site and not from here.

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I was looking at the pinwheel a couple of weeks ago but i cant find it anymore? Tell me it hasn't been discontinued?!

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merry cherry wrote:

I was looking at the pinwheel a couple of weeks ago but i cant find it anymore? Tell me it hasn't been discontinued?!

Nope! http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16483

And still that popular auction site still has them... but ssshhhh....

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Tigerlilies wrote:

Cheers, m'dear. Oh, it's a wartenburg wheel. I've heard a lot about them. Some people say that it really feels like one is being cut, without the actual injury. Not my bag but it could be great on mini pizzas.

I wouldn't say so - but see aforementioned messed up nervers.

Feels all shivery and wonderful!

I adore feather play too - they feel fantastic!

Floggers and the Vibrawhip are high on my *love* list too!

Great thread WandA - will have a think on things to add :)

Adx

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double enders

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missbehaving34 wrote:

Well, i'm planning a fun night with the other half, I have already bought an incredibly sexy cami suspender set, toys wise, I only use these on my own as i had previously suggested using it during sex but he wasn't that enthusiastic about the idea...I'm not really into the rampent rabbit size, just something smaller and quiet i guess...( I haven't got any at the moment)

I'm also wondering about these lubricants, would u recommend any? Also these delay creams, are they any good? (Not to say you have used any!) lol

Kinky no, he's not into any of that, me either.. just want a night of horny fun, away from the norm...

Thanks hun xx External Media What would u recommend I wear to blow his mind? x

Well... In addition to the above I'd suggest these none threatening toys:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=319 Cheap classic so not much wasted if it's not liked.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17063 Same as above.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14703 Small and not a big scary buzzy thing!

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17561 Super pricey but fantastic for couples, a his and hers!

Eggs, depending how opposed he is to toys these might be great to use during oral, on his balls and he can use then and control them so he's is still in charge:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9670

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18109

Bullets, not scary but really do the job! :

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14042 (silly batteries)

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14764 (Not silly batteries)

Cockrings are also great for some people although I don't really like 'em but still worth a browse:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/cock-rings/page-all/

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/vibrating-cock-rings/page-all/

Good luck.External Media

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I forgot about this thread.

A few of our favourites

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16308 A bondage set that is versatile and not scarey at all.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15817 A lovely little flogger, think WandA might have mentioned it earlier in the thread.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18417 A nice little massage candle, perfect for those romantic nights.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=7163 Our favourite all round lube.

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sexy little minx wrote:

I forgot about this thread.

A few of our favourites

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16308 A bondage set that is versatile and not scarey at all.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15817 A lovely little flogger, think WandA might have mentioned it earlier in the thread.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18417 A nice little massage candle, perfect for those romantic nights.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=7163 Our favourite all round lube.

I like the TC set... *Swoosh* To the Wishlist!

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http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18700 excellent cock ring, and it's older brother http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14882

Adx

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It took me bloody ages... I'm glad someone got a use from it!

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Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

I'm having immense trouble trying to find something that I can introduce my OH with and not have him feel threatened or weirded out by.. I can't think of anything that I can bring him around with. I thought maybe those massage candles, but I asked him and he said "Ugh.. girlie stuff!" Lol!

He is just so darned difficult!

Have you shown him LH? Maybe he could create a wishlist?

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Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

I'm having immense trouble trying to find something that I can introduce my OH with and not have him feel threatened or weirded out by.. I can't think of anything that I can bring him around with. I thought maybe those massage candles, but I asked him and he said "Ugh.. girlie stuff!" Lol!

He is just so darned difficult!

The body pens? Edible and not girly!

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Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

I'm having immense trouble trying to find something that I can introduce my OH with and not have him feel threatened or weirded out by.. I can't think of anything that I can bring him around with. I thought maybe those massage candles, but I asked him and he said "Ugh.. girlie stuff!" Lol!

He is just so darned difficult!

Have you tried bondage and cock rings?