Kronopticon wrote:
A surprising amount of girls are unresponsive to vaginal stimulation, clitoral and g-spot action is always good, and do a lot, but sometimes the penis just isnt the best stimulator for such actions, as poking the g-spot isnt as good as a good rub from a finger or a good vibe. and the same with the clit. well, put simply, you arent exactly penetrating her if youre rubbing her clit with your cock, but you could certainly ensure your crotch should be rubbing often during sex, or even giving it a damn good pounding might just set her off.
In my experience, most women are highly responsive to vaginal stimulation. Also in my experience, a surprising number of partners only think that a vagina is unresponsive to stimulation when it is really unresponsive to their stimulation. I can assure you, vaginas are responsive to the right stimulation, so if you're not getting the response you and your partners want, then please stop blaming the vagina.
So if you find that many of your female partners have vaginas which you think are unresponsive to stimulation, then you might want to reconsider your personal approach to vaginal stimulation in favour of a more considerate and effective approach.
Furthermore, in my experience, anybody trying to stimulate my enjoyment by poking, prodding, rubbing, and pounding, will fail. In my experience, those are all classical signs of the incompetent lover, and only work well in the sex industry where women are paid to pretend to love anything a man does.
So please note all of this when reading the advice above. Please please please remember that poking, prodding, rubbing and pounding are only appropriate with lovers whom you know very well, and who have clearly indicated explicitly to you that this is their preference. Otherwise, please remember that the sexual example set by the sex industry promotes fantasy and not reality.
Please be gentle and creative and generous and accommodating. Your partners will love you for it. :)