As a female I can confirm that I have always taken longer to reach orgasm than my (Male) partners. I have also suffered short bouts of anorgasmia and occasions where it took ages to reach orgasm. I just wonder how common or uncommon these problems can be for females especially, but both sexes in general. I also think starting a thread like this will put anyones mind at rest who have learned from porn and assume a woman is supposed to spontaneously orgasm the moment a penis slides inside of her. I have often had a suspicious relationship with my orgasms, assuming I "Take longer" than other girls. I have also experienced a snidey comment or two from men due to the time I took so I guess now I am older and wiser and feel more confident, I want to share my experience with others, especially any young folks worrying that they are doing something wrong or taking too long etc.
Join in if you feel so inclined to share your experiences, it would also be good to get guys opinions on this.
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Sex: Female
How long do you take to orgasm on average from manual stimulation (Fingers/tongues) 20-30 mins average, up to about an hour at times.
How long does it take you to reach orgasm using a favourite sex toy: 10-20 mins
Do you find it harder or easier to orgasm with a partner present/helping? Harder
Have you ever had periods of time where you just couldnt orgasm?: Yes, quite a few
If yes, how long did it last: Up to two months (Longest)
Do you orgasm through penetration alone (No clit stimulation)? No Never
Do you orgasm every time with your partner in control of the touching? If not, what is your rough percentage? No only about 70% of the time.
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Hopefully if more people join in, we can discover that there really is no "Normal" way and that will put some peoples minds at rest. Feel free to add or delete any questions you don't want to answer or add more details/questions/problems too!