@Enchantress29 The puppy headspace is such great fun! I completely recommend experimenting even on your own with bits of gear like a collar and ears for example to get a taster of whether you’d like it or not! I love being playful and having close contact with my partner, so the puppy headspace lends itself well to this too.
@LongtermCouple I’ve experimented with kitten space a little and own a few bits of gear! It’s not completely for me personally, but I’m happy that you’ve found something new to try out! I completely agree that the ears can be gorgeous!
I too am a puppy. Its something i have always been interested in really. Growing up with dogs i always loved getting down to their level and play fighting or just laying on the floor or grass with them.
Then i discovered during a relationship how much i love having my head stroked or scratched (cue black fuzzy floaty headedness due to her stroking my head while i crouched down looking at games in a shop).
Around 18 i had a domme friend who did abit of puppy training with me but i was always feeling awkward as self esteem was about zero
I found out about pet play as a teenager while I was watching porn and it was puppy play I liked. It had always been a fantasy but I was too young to try it out and it was quite an embarrassing turn on for me. It came up with my girlfriend a couple years ago and she was willing to give it a go. We did it a couple of times but I found I actually preferred to watch pet play porn videos than act out the fantasy in real life.
I’m the same with you on this! I’ve always loved being around dogs and spending time really close with them. As a child I’d often pretend to be like them too and when my friends would play ‘families’ I’d always end up being the dog haha. You could say it’s foreshadowing for future interests!
I love having my head petted too- I love the bond and closeness to my partner.
I hope your confidence and self esteem is improving! It can be strange at first to try out your kinks with a partner, but when you’re completely comfortable it feels great
At least you had the opportunity to try it out with a partner and figure out whether in practice it was for you or not! There are quite a few fetishes and bdsm scenes I love watching too, but acting out similar things in real life just aren’t for me.
Unfortunately not its been going steadily down and with lockdown i havent been able to meet up with anyone to have any pup time. Most dogs just seem to have it so easy and live worry free lives, im jealous
I’m sorry aww I understand- it’s been really difficult to connect with people and get out there at the moment. At least there’s the forum for talking with other pups and similar minded people. Maybe have a look at Twitter communities and fetlife to find people you could also talk with!
I’m so jealous of dogs that have just been happy over lockdown with all the love and attention they’ve been getting. My greyhound has adored it haha
I’d love to try a bit of pet play if I ever find a partner. I’d be a kitten I think, I already have collars and ears and tail plugs. I love the idea of my loving owner taking care of a kitty in heat x
Mine wasnt an expensive one as it was just a curiosity at the time but i love it. Muzzle is removable too came with matching collar but havent tried that yet