I think nipple piercing’s are sexy as hell. What is the best way to talk to your oh about getting hers done. She is a very self conscience person and I don’t want to hurt her feelings in anyway. Any suggestions.
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Hello and welcome @schleyrj 
I think getting your nipples pierced must be your own decision, so not something you can or should convince your partner to do for you.
Have you thought about getting your own done?
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@schleyrj hello and welcome to the forum 
you MUST discuss this with your OH if the answer is no you must live with this as it’s not your body as much as it may turn you on sorry to be blunt but that is how it is ! 
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Welcome to the forum
Have you discussed what your OH wants?
If not then I suggest talking to each other, and if it’s a no then it’s a no, especially if there already self body conscious.
Me personally I wouldn’t talk them into having it done cos I find it sexy. That would be hurting their feelings, talking them into, and not listening to what they want.
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Why not have yours done, and maybe she will decide to follow suit? 
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Hiya @schleyrj 
And welcome to the forum.
Think you’ve answered your own question there…she’s very self conscious and you don’t want to hurt her feelings.
So don’t…
Her body…her choice.
You can’t talk someone into modifying their body to please yourself. Like has been suggested get yours done…she MAY love them and decide for herself she wants hers done.
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Totally agree with this comment from @CurvyJilly . The best course of action if that is the ultimate desire.
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Fully agree 
Don’t think any harm in talking about that you find piercings hot / attractive etc but would say in a general conversation type of comment not what you want etc.
Certainly would not be saying that you want her to have them etc or any sort of pressure.
Would just suggest caution as if your OH is body conscious you don’t want it to come across that your not happy with her without them.
I love tattoos and happy to say when with OH that I find them attractive etc but would not ask her or suggest she has to get one unless she equally wanted.
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Hey welcome to the forum 
This sort of thing would have to be her choice to decide if she’d want a piercing but there’s certainly no stopping you from getting one so why not consider having your nipples pierced instead
Hi @schleyrj welcome to the tribe!
As most have said it is a very personal decision to get a piercing. Talk to her openly and see what she thinks. Good luck
Hello & welcome! Any body modification from piercings to tattoos & everything in between are VERY personal to the individual who bears them. Both me & my wife love tattoos & are both covered in ink & were when we met. Now, she loves her piercings, her nipples & VCH (vertical clitoral hood) in particular and although I love them, I wouldn’t have suggested that she had them done. Communication is key. Has she ever mentioned anything about them in passing? You need to check in with each other regularly and make sure you’re both on the same page.
Piercings are so sexy aren’t they. I love all of mine and my past ones for all different reasons and stages in my life that’s why some have gone and some have stayed with me (including all my intimately placed ones).
Just have the discussion, just ask her out straight…Do you like piercings and would it be something you’d consider? Piercings are a very individual choice so don’t be offended if it’s not going to be for her.
Maybe instead buy her a sexy body chain that you can get that has the illusion that they might be pierced or gives you both something to play with…or maybe roll a metal ball over her nipple to begin with to see how she likes the sensation against her nipples/skin could be a good starting place.
Or you could watch porn together (if that’s your thing) with actors/actresses that are pierced and gauge her interest that way which might initiate the discussion?
I miss not having me ex’s cock around I really do as he had a PA piercing and the best looking cock I have ever seen to date but I’m not going to be telling a new partner if they haven’t got one they must get one…it would be their own choice.
Hope this may help some and you both get to enjoy the benefits of being pierced soon 
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