Any advice for cuming to fast
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Like you want to cum slower?
take…your…time. Really enjoy and savour every moment, don’t rush no matter how badly you want to. Please the other person first if you are with someone else.
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I find a good quality cock ring helps a lot
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Tried going slow tried cock rings delay spray just cnt help but cum inside her tiny little hole she said no one has been able to last am no trying to big her up or out but she has got a really small pussy she can take length ok just girth is a struggle for her and me does any one suffer like this
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bang one out half hour before…
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I’m sort of in the same predicament, but only when the missus goes on top. Last night we made the mistake of her climbing on too early in our session. Then, oops lol
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Masturbation before sex usually helps to delay the second cumming.
Perhaps wearing a thicker condom might reduce sensitivity, or using copious amounts of lube might have the same effect to reduce friction thereby delaying the urge to cum.
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In no particular order:
- masturbate beforehand
- masturbate more often in general
- try stamina ‘training’ things, like using a Fleshlight
- try using a cock ring
- play with depth during sex. The top 1/3rd of your penis isn’t very sensitive, but the first 1/3rd of her vagina is super sensitive. So start going really shallow strokes for a bit to calm yourself down before going back to normal. Plus she’ll love it.
- stop when you’re close and do things just for her without touching yourself. My go to is usually to start rimming her.
- start watching lots of porn, which desensitises you a little, but be careful with this as some people can develop addictions etc. I wouldn’t really recommend this, but I just know that when I’m in a phase of watching a lot of porn then I last ages. So if I was struggling then I know this would work for me.
That’s all I can think of for now.
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Masturbate lots - masturbate some more - try not to cum too fast when you play with yourself - edge touch yourself everywhere get senses going - use toys that vibrate or suck which feel extra good and try to make yourself last long with them.
Exercise, deep breaths, drink lots of water and healthy diet…
I have worn a condom in the past with desensitizing lube inside which made me last longer - never tried a desensitizing lube direct.
Sometimes it’s in the mind try not to think about it - try some mental yoga relaxtion.
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Masturbating before would be fine, except last night was unplanned lol
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I am not too sure your statement is correct for this topic , I am not trying o be critical but a clearer request for advice maybe required if you are looking for specific advice!
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Have you tried delay spray/cream or practiced edging?
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Delay condoms and partner on top
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Super viagra type tablets have dapoxitine in them which delay things, but it’s means going on shady websites, delay sprays work, but they are hot and miss, too weak, doesn’t do anything, too strong you can’t cum!
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@Couple_after_help My boyfriend had tried most of the above that have been mentioned but he has always cum quickly, usually a minute or two. About a year ago he saw a doctor and they offered him Paroxetine, an SSRI to try if he wanted, and said he should see some benefit from this.
It took about 3-4 weeks but we definitely noticed a difference around this time and after around 3 months he was lasting at least 15-20 minutes or longer. He’s been on the medication since, over a year now and can just go for ages, sometimes he doesn’t even need to cum. We have talked about him stopping the medication but neither of us really wants to lose the benefits it has had.
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@Curvy_bbw
Dont get yourself in that mind set that you are not satisfying him. Thats not good for you…
I get more pleasure giving to my OH as well… It really makes me feel good…so just be happy with whats happening.
If Im really wanting it more then I will just say ‘make me cum babe’ and she will do everything to get me over the edge.
To be a guy thats satisfying a woman is an amazing feeling… Its quite often the other way around.
Live it and love it…
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To be honest, i remember the one girl i went out with for a bit was the same in terms of tightness. Whilst it felt amazing like she’d got a gorilla grip on it it was very very difficult to keep the cream in the carton.
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I found this with my wife’s bottom last time, had spent too much time bending and pushing my penis trying to get it to go in. 
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Grow old
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