Nymeria wrote:
I'm not sure how experienced you are with toys, but I'd suggest the basic beginner's kit as it holds all the essential stuff- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22875 or http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25661
I love the confidence you have lol. I think you only truly need that and a bit of creativity. You can't go wrong with the blindfold idea. The whole driving him crazy with desire and having him helpness is always a winner as others have suggested.
You can use flavoured lube to make oral that tad bit more exciting (that extra enthusiasm makes a big difference). Massage candles or oils make a really nice romantic yet erotic touch. I'd suggest these:- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22425 (just add 2 more items from the 3 for £10 offer for a bargain!). Here: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/special-offers/1667/
You could try finding out what appeals to him too. What are his kinks? Perhaps suggest watching porn together and see what he picks?
Ive got everything in those starter kits bar the strokers. I like the idea of pairing one of those sleeves with a hot bj, but he's not keen on the idea of 'boy toys'.
I like the massage oils idea tho and I know it woud go down well.... years ago I did a massage course ( i didnt follow on with it as a career perminantly as 8hrs of it a day hurt my thumbs so bad)..... erotic massage perhaps?
As for his kinks, he has always said I'm more kinky then him. His main thing is anal, but I'm working my way through tiny butt plugs - with the hope to get to large ones by next October- ready for our honeymoon. So he cant have my arse for his birthday lol
I must say I'm loving all these ideas!
PurringTiger wrote:
Sounds like you already have the blindofld and ties sorted. How about making it a very slow sensation pampering session.
For my lovers birthday I first went over his skin from top to toe with my fingers very gently and my nails very very gently, then I used a feather tickler like this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=6788. Again from top to bottom.
Then I switched to this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14109 First using it at body temperature and then I put it in some ice whilst I gave him a massage with a warming massage lotion that was flavoured and lickable. One of the massage candles on here would be a good substitue maybe http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19018 then you have a choice of flavours to use for next time too.
Then I used the ballbearing tickler again as it was now nice and cold - going from warm to cold is great but be careful around certain places. Then start to explore with your lips and tongue.
By the time I got to using my lips and tongue he was begging for sex but also felt so relaxed and pampered. Add in a flavoured lube for oral at this point and I think you're going to have one very happy man.
PurringTiger:
I like your style! and thanks to you my wishlist has just grown! 
few thoughts.
bondage = good
blindfold = better
talking to him as you amuse yourself and he's hearing that = hotter
massage leading to erotic massage = hotter still
sensation play whilst he's blindfolded and tied.......sure winner? soft/hard/tingly/warm/cold.........if you dont have time for shopping for the commercial goodies: soft: silk scarf, faux fur, feather etc tingly = plastic fork, pizza cutter, nutmeg grater: unusual but soft = pastry brush, shaving brush.....cold or warm= whisk, ice cream scoop, candle ( if normal try it on yourself from a fair height as they burn hotter than 'play' candles'....scents....shaving foam -----the list is only bound by imagination or the kitchen/household utensils
tease a bit more with teh blindfold off, and tease him to distractin by having a bit of DIY.........and then after repositioning him on his back ( tied again)....i'm sure you can fill in the gaps....
H2H
How about tying him up, blind folding him, lots of massage, teasing, slow sensual blow job before suprising him with a nicely lubed strap on in his arse whilst playing with his cock.
Just a thought!
Have fun what ever you end up doing
James0007 wrote:
How about tying him up, blind folding him, lots of massage, teasing, slow sensual blow job before suprising him with a nicely lubed strap on in his arse whilst playing with his cock.
Just a thought!
Have fun what ever you end up doing
hmmm sounds like Christmas! Thanks for the idea.
Imagination costs nothing...
That would be the ideal gift for me , love it when a woman uses sexy ides !
He will have a ball & so wil you x