Its my other halfs birthday soon and as ever I dont know what to get him.
Pennies are tight as we have just bought our first place together and are saving forour wedding next year.
He has said that he dosen't need anything and that he would love a day of sex and kink all about him.
so the question is,.... if it was your birthday. What would you like your little sex slave to do to you. And are there any specific toys you could recomend. i have a few ideas myself, but after 9 years I worry I might be getting predictable- still awsome but predicatable .
I was thinking about binding him to the bed, blindfolding him and using one of the tenga toys on him.
All tips greatfully recieved, that goes for toy recomendations too.
tie him up and drip hot wax all over his body. He will love it!!
can you recomend a type of candle.
would beeswax or parifin candles be better? I've tried it before, once was devine the other burnt like fook. So I think it was the candles. *hmmm time to reseach safe wax play*
Tie him up with a couple of your softest longest scarves. Blindfold him , and tease him slowly slowly slowly. Drive him crazy with desire and need, then take him gently and slowly. Will blow his mind. As for pressies a nice espresso stove top coffee maker may go down well and will add to your home stuff for when yopu get married
great idea. i did this for my Partner too. you could also try making some sexy coupons for him.
i like to wait for my partner on the bed in my most submissive pose wearing my collar and cuffs or a blindfold.
if he is more of the sub though perhaps you could wake him up with your best femdom costume and pose :)
Did you put a best before in the fine print on the coupons?
Neither of us are particular sub or dom. We both go either way in most respects . But I do like the idea of the collar.... I might get the chains and ropes box out.
Tie him up with a couple of your softest longest scarves. Blindfold him , and tease him slowly slowly slowly. Drive him crazy with desire and need, then take him gently and slowly. Will blow his mind. As for pressies a nice espresso stove top coffee maker may go down well and will add to your home stuff for when yopu get married
I love the confidence you have lol. I think you only truly need that and a bit of creativity. You can't go wrong with the blindfold idea. The whole driving him crazy with desire and having him helpness is always a winner as others have suggested.
Sounds like you already have the blindofld and ties sorted. How about making it a very slow sensation pampering session.
For my lovers birthday I first went over his skin from top to toe with my fingers very gently and my nails very very gently, then I used a feather tickler like this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=6788. Again from top to bottom.
Then I switched to this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14109 First using it at body temperature and then I put it in some ice whilst I gave him a massage with a warming massage lotion that was flavoured and lickable. One of the massage candles on here would be a good substitue maybe http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19018 then you have a choice of flavours to use for next time too.
Then I used the ballbearing tickler again as it was now nice and cold - going from warm to cold is great but be careful around certain places. Then start to explore with your lips and tongue.
By the time I got to using my lips and tongue he was begging for sex but also felt so relaxed and pampered. Add in a flavoured lube for oral at this point and I think you're going to have one very happy man.
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. But I do like the idea of the collar.... I might get the chains and ropes box out. 