Having no idea what you mean by "quoting the rule book", I am basing my reply on a general situation...
In which case, he's a sod! I'd be out for revenge. haha. I have actually had revenge on someone who often left me hanging after he'd pleased himself (although that is obviously a somewhat different scenario)... Let's just say, after experiencing how it feels and I just hopped off and went for a shower, he never did it again :D Poor bot was so confused hahahahaha :D
HE IS A SOD!
My other half does this to me often in fact!
It is HORRIBLE!
It is not about control it is about how mean you want to be that day!
my boyfriend has done this to me a couple of times, its just a tease adn its really mean when they do it but my boyfrined always seems to make up for it later and my god its worth the wait... its amazing :) but at the time they do it it feels horrible and i really dont like it when he does it to me :( but when they make it up its very good, hehe :)