Hi! Been a while since I've been on here. So I've recently come out as - or should I say accepted that I am - bisexual. I am married though and so the idea of experimenting with other guys, which I haven't done before, is as uncomfortable to me as it is my wife, we're both very monogamous people. I'm fine with not experimenting, however I would like to experiment on my own and was wondering if anyone can recommend a realistic vibrator for a beginner to use for anal on their own, ie a suction cup would be great. I've only come across one (though I'm sure others exist here) and was wondering if anyone had experience using them anally, particularly guys, how well it worked (https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=39519)? Thanks in advance!
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/gay-sex-toys-for-men/anal-dildos/ Im sure you will find what your lookin for here
Hey JCHunter, welcome to the club! I fortunately had a bi life before I got with my wife, we've been together for over 25 years so in that time have had no real cock but as my wife is as experimental as myself we do pegging regularly, she loves fucking me and I love it as whilst it's not as good as the real thing it's a good substitute!! Obviously it depends on how willing you wife is but we have the Red Rider strapon, https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16971 It's a good pegging beginners strapon, it has a good curve for prostate stimulation and milking and it also has clip in rings so they can be changed for larger rings for larger dildo's!! My wife just loves her cock!!
I think there has been a misunderstanding, I'm talking about a realistic vibrator ideal for anal use to use on one's own, particularly if it has a suction cup. I'm not referring to strap ons (she is not interested in doing that) and sending me to a whole section of the website is not a recommendation for a toy.
Hi JGHunter, this isn't a vibrator I am afraid so doesn't hit your description perfectly but we were recently asked to test it out and it is amazing. https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=41205 the reason for recommending this product to you is because of it's realistic feel. My wife was surprised and just how realistic it felt, so may give you a good idea. The suction cup is amazingly strong too. I have reviewed it if you want to know more, you have different colour options too if the bright colours aren't for you.
Hi there, I can't find very petite ones - but here is a selection on vibrating suction cup dildos:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22816
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22817
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=40332
I have also put this one in as although it is a plug - it is suitable for beginners, vibrates, and is suction cupped too:
It's quite likely you already know this, but just in case you don't, wanting to put things up your bum to see how nice it feels has very little to do with sexuality. 🙂 That's not to say you aren't bisexual, but if that's what you're basing it on I thought I'd mention that straight men can love a bit of bum fun too without having to redefine their sexuality. 👍
You don't give much away in your posts, but there's a few things that may help people give you recommendations that'll tickle your fancy. For instance, have you used anal toys before (for sizing)? And what degree of realism are you looking for (shape, texture, looks)? Is the vibrating ask a definite, as there are a lot more non-vibrating dildos that may fit the bill (same for the suction cup). And how you plan to use it might be useful too if you'd like any suggestions on positions, lubes, etc?
Admittedly this isn't my area of expertise, but I hope this helps. 🙂