Recommendations for first time Anal play

Hi

Hope someone can help by recommending a dildo for first time Anal play with my OH. I've tried a Penis sleeve with her but we are venturing into new territory here. She said she didn't want it too big but wants a realistic one

When she said she doesn't want it too big, was she referring to length or width? Or both?

She was referring to both

I'm considering these which one should I go for which might allow for DP

Si Novelties Medium Penis Butt Plug 5 Inch
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8582
OR
Blush Super-Flexible Realistic Dildo 4 Inch
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28408

I would consider this one, it is similar circumference and they have various colours, lovehoney lifelike lover silicone realistic dildo, i have found these to be comfortable and easy to use.

There is a lot of fun to have with this kit.
www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35236

You can both experiment on each other or even solo with the toys to see how it feels.

I have progress onto this which is amazing! I'm a straight guy by the way and my oh loves it too.
www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34253

Butt plugs are fun whilst having sex too.... we sometimes both wear a butt plug whilst we play, we started small like the ones in that kit and now I can use this one after a bit of warm up.

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8566

I have this one but I haven't managed to take it yet.....

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35507
Maybe this weekend I will succeed....

End of the day start small, doesn't matter what type of toy you go for either a dildo or a plug... start small and use loads of anal lube.
Don't be scared of trying it yourself you maybe pleasantly surprised like I was.

Hope this helps