Aren't there 3 topics we shouldn't discuss at dinner parties? Religion, politics and sex (I may of made up the three).
Seeing as its election time and there has been bits of politics everywhere, even on here and sex is obviously certainly here I thought I might as well bring religion into the arena. If it hasn't already in some of the 'Sex in the news' posts.
Being an atheist I have a weird fascination with religion, it makes very little sense to me but it is such a strong motivational force for many out there I'm curious as to others take on issues of sex and religion.
This isn't a post for flaming or derision (I reserved that for those who deny evolution and equal right on other sites) just maybe a post to give your own opinion on sex and how it fits into your religion or lack of.
One aspect of religion that annoys/confuses me is the selective approach taken by many. Lets denounce gays (If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them. 20:13) and subjugation of women (In sorrow thou shalt bring forth children. ... Thy husband ... shall rule over thee. 3:16)* with justification from a book while they eat bacon and work on Sundays (or Saturdays etc.... I'm sure I'm not the first to point out that many religious texts would fail to meet even the basics of our modern laws, the HRA or even most peoples idea of common decency.
How do some people ignore the rules they do like and find a place for their sexuality and practices within a religion without going to the 'bad' afterlife? I have also purposely ignored 'cultural' rules such as the wearing of the hajab/burka or enforced celibacy in some Christian sects and focused on 'original texts'.
So how does sex for actual enjoyment fit in to all this religion malarkey? Is it a gift, foes it bring you closer to God/nature etc... or is it just a great to be a liberated hedonist and free from the shackles of moral and social judgement.
Discuss. If you want like...
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*Some quotes from the Quran, just to avoid accusations of bias
Except the feeble among men, and the women, and the children, who are unable to devise a plan 4:98
Assemble those who did wrong, together with their wives and what they used to worship. 37:22 (Terribly sporting of Allah to punish wives for being married to 'sinners'.)