"Rose by any other name"

Excuse my prurience but I have a question for the homosexual women of the OA. Do u prefer to be referred to as 'gay' or as 'lesbian'?

I have a close friend who is a lesbian and she doesnt mind either, she doesnt even mind "dyke". i guess its different for all x

I think it will depend on the context and individuals, much as I have an Asian friend who shall we say embraces other terms.

I tend to use 'gay' more I think, mainly because being 'straight' doesn't apply to either gender.

WandA wrote:

II tend to use 'gay' more I think, mainly because being 'straight' doesn't apply to either gender.

Would u care to expand on this?

Wilkibo wrote:

WandA wrote:

II tend to use 'gay' more I think, mainly because being 'straight' doesn't apply to either gender.

Would u care to expand on this?

Sorry, I wasn't very clear.

'Gay' and 'straight' are gender neutral terms in the respect anyone, male or female, can be either. Of course you don't get lesbian men!

I don't think it matters at all, some people may prefer the more specific term but I just use gay out laziness.External Media

WandA wrote:

Of course you don't get lesbian men!

Yes you do...

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lesbos#Notable_people

Mr Monster wrote:

WandA wrote:

Of course you don't get lesbian men!

Yes you do...

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lesbos#Notable_people

I shudda known there'd be one smart arse.External Media

Anyway, they're Lesbians!