The real thing if i have to choose one or the other. Using sex toys with a partner can be fun too,but if I have to choose, the real thing is better. I can feel the connection between me and my partner, I like the touch, the eye contact, his body against mine...
But I love toys when I do not have partner, or we cannot be together for a while.We do not live together yet, only been together shortly, and me on evening shift will kill the chance this week to meet. So toys will def come very handy!