Had a quick search, didn't see this Q so I wanted to ask y'all:
Do you have a mental list of stuff you'd like to do/want to do, sexwise? For me I definitely do have a lot of fantastical notions, and a pared down version of it sits like a shopping list to be ticked off one day in the back of my mind. I wondered whether anyone else had this sort of thing or is it more of a freeform seat-of-the-pants arrangement?
Odd question I know, but indulge me! :)