Sexuality Question

Sounds like it! I had pretty much bottomed-out (pun intended) my feelings before I experienced a penis, so I didn’t really have a “curious” phase.

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Insofar as ejaculating dildos go, I have a couple of them, and would definitely recommend them (my partner actually really enjoys using them and “cumming” all over me!). Lovehoney do a white lube (Delight) which gives the correct look, and obviously it’s quite a good way of applying extra lube! Personally I can’t advise whether it feels the same as for an ejaculating penis (can’t really see why it wouldn’t though), as I’m not in a fluid-bonded relationship and therefore safe sex has to take priority over personal preference! Perhaps someone else can compare and contrast?

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I think at some point I will express my curiosity to my wife and see how that goes. She took my pegging interest very well

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Does it shoot out or at least seem realistic

Depends on the model actually I find. Both the ones I own have a syringe which you have to fill up, and then depress the plunger. One of them, if you try to force it (intending to make it spurt out), the tube pops off and you end up squirting lube all over the place. Hysterically funny, but not really what you’re trying to achieve! That one is more of a slow stream, which really isn’t realistic. The other one (a Doc Johnson one IIRC) seems to have a better setup and can actually take more force. That one does spurt quite realistically in my view.

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The lube going everywhere might be funny the first few times lol

Just thought of a little tip (yeah ok, pun intended again!). The tube between the syringe, and the across to the dildo, and then up the dildo is quite a distance, and you may want to “pre-deliver” the lube as it were. Depending on the model, you may end up emptying the syringe, but that’s ok, because removing the syringe from the tube allows you to pull the plunger back, and then when you depress it for real, you’ll be shooting lube straightaway. Worked for us, anyway!

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Maybe start by asking her if she is sexually aroused by the same sex, this may be a strong way to start but if she is, this may be a little more comforting. Or ask if you guys can watch porn together and ask her if she likes the idea of homosexual porn. There are many approaches, you could also ask her if she is willing to do anal play on you, she could use a strap-on with a realistic dildo, this may keep you satisfied for the mean-time. Or just simply send discreet messages her way, slowly and casually, she’ll begin to realise and hopefully then, she’ll be open to the idea of you having sex with another man :slight_smile:

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Right there with you mate.
I feel very much the same, I love everything about a woman and I am not attracted to men at all.

I love it when my wife is pegging me but I would love to feel a real penis in my ass. I also would like to try giving someone a BJ together with my wife. Preferably in a threesome or something.

I consider my self heterosexual and bi-curious.

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I’m liking the idea of a shared bj.
I think if I gave one, I’d have to try a facial lol
It’s one of my top things to watch in porn.

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Perhaps you could try pegging? Make sure to start of ‘small’ and ease yourself into it. There are all kinds of strapons on love honey ranging from bright purple dildos to realistic looking dildos so hopefully you’ll be able to find something right for you :slight_smile:

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We are into pegging. We both absolutely love it!

What about a real penis in the ass while receiving a bj?

I’d say why put a label on it, we’re all unique and are allowed to explore our sexual experiences :smiley:

Buy in terms it’d be classed as bicurious unless you have a lasting sexual relationship with both men and women then that’d be bisexual.

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Oh yes I’m definitely curious. Just not sure if I will get the opportunity to experience it

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I’m definitely of the opinion that the majority of people aren’t 100% homosexual or heterosexual and that we are somewhere in between. I find beauty everywhere. I understand you @Siamesecult and your confusion (not sure if that’s the right word). I’m in a similar boat. I’m married to a wonderful, attractive, sexy lady, but I fantasise about being done with a woman with a strapon or a transsexual. However, I don’t want a man to do it. I would love to suck cock, but the same again. Now what’s the difference between a transsexual and a man? I don’t lable myself and put that pressure on me. I’ve been talking to my wife about me wanting anal and it was a daunting topic, but she understands. We haven’t got as far as pegging yet, but I hope to get there. So you are ahead of me. Slow and steady is my advice and work out what you really want. Communication is key and has to be open and honest.

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Oh a transexual would be much preferred before a man. I just want to experience the real thing

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Would love to feel a real penis in my ass while I recieving a blowjob from my wife. I think I won’t last long if that happens.

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Agreed lol

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Have you spoken to your other half about this? As from hearing others experiences it’s usually a good thing to explore as you’ll only look back in the long run having regrets…

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