Any ideas for how I could spice things up without using toys?
wear different clothing...something silky, something lacy, something latexy depending on the way you are and touch over the clothing, slowly before gradually unwrapping.
get someone to watch
do it outside or somewhere risque where there is a chance you could be caught.
obvious is porn etc but im sure you've worked that one out. 
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I agree lube is good idea unless you are using one.
I also tried to tie scarf over my eyes and it did change the experience for me. I could not open eyes and see. I just felt it. it gave me more focus on the pleasure. Knowing I am in the dark.
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I totally agree with AA about lube. We use Liquid Silk. Its a little expensive but works wonders and very much similar to cum i.e texture, taste, colour.
Can I ask why you do not wish to use toys?
Thank you guys for the fab ideas which are very exciting! I love the sound of different clothing, textures etc, etc! I have some Yes lube which I don't use nearly enough, it's quite messy and not always worth the extra effort when some quick relief is needed! I really like LMF's idea of different clothing, 'unwrapping' and generally slowing things down! Really like Laveila's idea of a blindfold too so I can concentrate on how things are feeling! Really like the idea of different places too, have tried the shower but haven't done it again nearly enough! I have used toys in the past Dee_licious333 but I feel I can't get the most out of them unless I'm completely alone, especially my FF Cobra Libre which is great but so noisy! Still living with the 'rents! :(
Very exciting as some of these things would have never even crossed my mind! :)
mr_man wrote:
Very exciting as some of these things would have never even crossed my mind! :)
Enjoy experimenting
Thank you LMF, I'm sure I will, can't wait for this eve to roll round now!! ;)
Going beyond the cock is something that I found quite revealing. Your whole body has nerve endings, so it's worth exploring more than just hand on cock. Nipples, navel, neck, belly, thighs. Have a feel about. Think hedonism and you'll work it out. =)
Pixieking wrote:
Going beyond the cock is something that I found quite revealing. Your whole body has nerve endings, so it's worth exploring more than just hand on cock. Nipples, navel, neck, belly, thighs. Have a feel about. Think hedonism and you'll work it out. =)
lol Mrs G was most surprised to find that I like having my neck throat and nipples kissed just as much as she does. Why is it EVERY ONE seems to think men just like their dick felt, even sex manuals sometimes say it
mr_man wrote:
Any ideas for how I could spice things up without using toys?
Get a woman to bring you off with her privates
gunther wrote:
mr_man wrote:
Any ideas for how I could spice things up without using toys?
Get a woman to bring you off with her privates
I'm happy with being single at the moment!
just a joke Mr Man
gunther wrote:
just a joke Mr Man
No probs gunther!