Ok im not sure if theres a thread for this so apologies first off
Id love to be properly spanked... im alil apprehensive and my OH isnt keen but will try as long as i use my safe word.. which DRUM ROLL IS.......................... KITTENS (hence my name)
any who my point.... Best newbie spank paddle and tips be great x
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I have this one and I love it!
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33630
I love that it has both a side made of satin and a side made of leather since this means that you can progress from soft to a little rougher spanking with it :) It's also great for sensory play! My tip would be: Look att Jess's spanking video on youtube, search for "Bondage Gone Wilde" and look at her spanking video with your OH :)
Ah Fab, I like medium pain but i thinnk its like anal it needs to build up resistance? would you agree
Thank Sxlek
We have the 50 shades paddle http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26079 as with the other suggested paddle this has a satin and a leather side. It's great for gentle spanking but with the leather side you can leave a nice red mark and get a good sting! We love it and use it regularly...
I wrote a guide.
http://subsmissives.com/bondage/spank-test-spanking-101/
Again, apologies for the self promotion.
we have this paddle in red. Love it.Sxleksaker wrote:
I have this one and I love it!
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33630
I love that it has both a side made of satin and a side made of leather since this means that you can progress from soft to a little rougher spanking with it :) It's also great for sensory play! My tip would be: Look att Jess's spanking video on youtube, search for "Bondage Gone Wilde" and look at her spanking video with your OH :)
Sxleksaker wrote:
I have this one and I love it!
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33630
I love that it has both a side made of satin and a side made of leather since this means that you can progress from soft to a little rougher spanking with it :) It's also great for sensory play! My tip would be: Look att Jess's spanking video on youtube, search for "Bondage Gone Wilde" and look at her spanking video with your OH :)
+1 I have this paddle too, and it really is great. Having 2 sides is brilliant, as you can build up slowly at your own pace. I have also found you the link for Jess's video :) x
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=5qxraa7bQSk
Hi kittens, I would recomend this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32966
As it's name suggests it's more soft and supple than a traditional paddle, but it does deliver a range of gentle slaps to stinging slaps depending on how hard it is used. The sound is very satisfying too, without too much pain.
There is a matching traditional type of paddle in the range too, and that is only £15, so if you like the slapper you can progress to the matching paddle without breaking the bank.
I purchased both and OH and I would chase eachother round the house trying to slap the other person without them getting you back. A great fun way to start out.
That sounds really fun FL 😄
It occurred to me today that these can also be used as fly swatters. Anybody else tried this?
No, but I do have a pound shop fly-swat in my little BDSM arsenal. Hot damn, that little critter stings! 
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