Looking for a decent quality spreader bar - had looked at the Reviews and the following looked good - one of the others is just out of stock that also looked good.
Anyone got any experience with it or recommend something different....just aiming to spread the other half wide to enjoy some mild bondage play.
I have this one, its a little vanilla with the velcro and all that, but it is sturdy, well made, comfortable for the other half, and the postions achievable are sooo good.
Otherwise if you are wanting something a bit cheaper and to start out with I would suggest the Purple Reins one, simple to use and you don't have to mess around with the adjustibility: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36046
I've been looking at one of these and haven't decided on which yet..... although the OH says I can't spend to much one here in one month and may he to wait till next month! That's no fun!
Brings a whole new dimension to being 'spread wide' xxx
Maybe I'm just weird, but some of the allure somehow looks lost with the restraint on the thighs rather than the ankles - sure, it's a much wider spread with a much smaller bar but...
Can't put it into words! Somehow doesn't look as enticing.