Me and my partner are looking for a decent smallish strap on and I wondered if you could help us out.
The things I am looking for from one include, I really don't want it much bigger than 4 inch circumference and I would prefer one that vibrates although I will look at ones that don't as well.
Hi Fee, welcome to the forums! I personally like the look of this strap-on http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17822 I think the sensations would be really nice. It is strapless so no need to worry about uncomfortable straps.
I've got the same but non-vibrating version. Its very well made and great fun. If you've got the cash though the tantus one looks like it would be a bit nicer, especially that the bullet is built in rather than the remote on a wire. Half the point of these strapless ones is that you can do away with the straps and wires etc, so i'm surprised toy-joy have made it like that.
Yeah I am a lesbian so this is about what I am looking for, I do love the look of the Tantus Slim and if i had enough money I wouldn't have posted this topic and just gone for that! That is something for the future.
I'm not to sure about the wires where you control the vibrating part like on the Toy Joy, do they get in the way or anything?
I think the insertable style ones are by far and away the best. If you like the look of harnesses or want some extra stability you can use special harnesses with them that hold them in very securely.
I have the Tantus Feeldoe and the Mantric Sysil Edge and for me the Mantric wins hands-down! It's more comfortable, adjustable, prettier, nicer quality and I think both ends feel better!
For your future collection get this: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18043 . Amazing harness!! Sits snugly and although its expensive it's worth every penny!! My Girlfriend and I brought it and its better than buying loads of cheaper ones because they never quite feel secure enough!
If your worried about price, get a good dildo and use it in secure knickers/pants by cutting a hole in them! Thats what I did in my student days and works well...
Also...
I do have one of these: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=4209 - its new and never been used...Was going to put it on adopt a toy thread... e-mail: chelsea.thomas16@gmail.com