Sooo.. not too long ago I decided to try give my OH a striptease.
The only problem is that I'd worked out a 'routine', some music, scribbled out some 'club rules' (with a little heart at the end obviously) and nipped downstairs to change, have a quick recap and use some mouthwash (several times, actually, because I was nervous).
Once upstairs again I got nervous, had a panic attack and fell asleep. Which has kind of squashed any ideas of a tease out of my mind completely...
BUT, I know my OH would love it, and it'd give a lot more confidence...
So I'm wondering, has anyone else given a strip tease? were you nervous, and how did you get past that? and does anyone have any tips?
I haven't done this but on a hen party we had a burlesque lesson that I would love to do again without the worst hangover of my life!
I would say to have a glass of wine or two but no more as you want to feel confident and sexy but not staggering or clumsy!
If I were you I would practice so you can see how it looks! Take your time, pointing your toes etc makes your legs look longer and sexier, practice taking off your stockings, wear your heels with pride and remember to have fun with it, you're man will think it's really hot and he fancies you already! Don't take yourself too seriously, he will probably find your nervous giggles a turn on.
Tease him with your moves and slowly reveal each body part! Have fun xx
Done it and love it :) keep in mind your OH is gonna love anything you do.
You can always watch you tube for ideas but I would keep it simple to start tease him and have lots of layers... change up the way he can see you facing forward, bending over... you get the idea.
Keep if to one or just part of a song so your not putting too much pressure on yourself and a glass of wine is not a bad idea but don't get drunk lol
I'm in your boat! How's these "professional" manage it, it takes me 20 minutes to get dressed it's like a toddler trying to dress themselves for first time!🙈 -Try listening to the song repeatedly, a glass (or two) and if possible try and record yourself first you'll be more impressed then you thought so your nerves hopefully slide off with your strip! & remember he'll be more hypnotised by his favourite bits, wondering how he got so lucky! -If the whole initiating it worries you, if possible send him a couple second snipit of a move you plan to do and send while he's at work? His reaction will give you a massive confidence boost!:) Good luck!x
Practice in front of a mirror and try to ensure that when you do your routine that the music doesn't finish befor we you do.Its better the other way around as you can always pad it out with some sexy dancing before you remove your last item.
To do this you really need to be body confident .If your happy about walking about naked in front of your Oh then you will be fine. If there is a part of your body that you don't like then consider keeping that bit covered .An option if this was the case is to just show the back view when you remove the item that covers it.
Choose your clothes carefully .Don't choose clothes that your going to end up in knots with .For example jumpers or tops. that you have to pull over your head to remove. Check any zippers for potential jamming.
I would pick clothes that contain buttons as you can slowly undo these adding to the tease .Another trick is to wear 2 pairs of lacy pants. A pair slightly largerv concealing a tiny G String under neath .Again that will add to the tease .
Consider using a dining room type chair as a prop for your act. You can use it to "hide" behind , dance around ,bending over to emphasise your rear and as a platform to enable you to remove your nylons with out any danger of ending up in a heap on the floor. If not using a chair then consider leaving your stockings on if you intend wearing them .
Be careful of the shoes you intend wearing. They have to be sexy enough but practical enough to enable you to dance in without stumbling or worse falling over. . Otherwise kick them off first .
Check out the many striptease vidios availbable on the web via You Tube and the porn sites .
Don't worry about your own act looking clumsy. Believe me your Oh will not notice. He will be too transfixed on the item of clothing your removing.
You could if confident treat him to a bit of a lap dance during your act and slap his hands if he tries to touch you to soon .
This has given me a few ideas. I'll be looking at my tops with buttons and definitely 2 pairs of panties... One of these days I'll take the plunge and surprise hubby :)
This has given me a few ideas. I'll be looking at my tops with buttons and definitely 2 pairs of panties... One of these days I'll take the plunge and surprise hubby :)
Not sure if they are still in fashion but some of the shirt dresses had buttons all the way from top to bottom. The longer it takes in removing something the more of a tease it will be. You could even start in a military trench type coat like in Nine and a Half weeks. You also need to select your music so it's quit a long song. There are some threads somewhere on here about songs to strip to. One of my favourites is The Stanglers Nice N Sleezy. Even if your not an" Old New Wave " fan it's worth listening to as the beat of this song is spot on and it's quite long. You can hear it on You Tube.
Your best bet really is to perform to music you know your Oh likes as he will appreciate more.