hey everyone,i dont know if this is the right section but here it goes. the idea has popped in my head lately about doing a bit of stripping for the likes of hen parties and the likes, i have always fancied it and as finacial times arent the best it could help in that department.
but the wife doesnt like the idea of me stripping in front of other women, am just wondering how i could convince her or should i find a different way to earn some extra pennies??
Mmm, times are bad with regards to finance and I can see how it would make you some easy money, so I can see how it's tempting. But personally I think you should respect your wifes views on this one. I know I wouldn't like it if my fella stripped for other women. And would you be ok with her stripping for other men?
It's up to you of course, only you know how bad the finance situation is, but I would say there must be another way to earn extra money without upsetting your wife.
xx
Yes I agree, if you try to convince her she might be putting on a front to keep you happy, but she could end up resenting you. Have you any other skills/talents you could use to make money? For example, my fellas dad does discos at weekend and makes quite a bit of money xx
i think you guys are right, cant upset the missus, back to good old ebay and leave the stripping for the bedroom
Carly made a lot of good points which I agree with. If my partner were to approach me and ask how I felt about them doing a stripping job, then I'd be fine with that in principle.
On the other hand, if my partner were to present me with a wish to take a stripping job to make a bit of cash, then I'd wonder why the money was being emphasised. Why stripping? As Carly so rightly pointed out, it's really low paying and there are loads of better paying jobs to be had. So my trust would certainly be challenged because I'd know something was being concealed.
I'm not surprised you're wife isn't happy about the idea, even within polyamory I'd greet a proposal like that with considerable skepticism.
Personally I like the idea of farming out my partner to service other people, he's really hot and I like other people drooling over him. :) But I think with the sex industry the way it is, this would stay a lot easier, safer and hotter if I avoid the cash element and its affiliated obligations, and farm him out only to the people I choose and under terms I specify.
Still, you can practice stripping for your wife, and that could be hot. :)
My partner keeps talking about being an escort for some reason, and im unbelivably against him doing this, as i would also be about him stripping.
I agree with what people have said, in that, if she wont want you doing it now, its very likely she wont change her mind xx
Nexas wrote:
I don't share well LOL
Me either!! Hate sharing whats mine, lol
I like sharing a lot. :)
I know, you're all shocked. :p
Nexas wrote:
Lubyanka wrote:
I like sharing a lot. :)
I know, you're all shocked. :p
Totally...and...completely... (to be read in a monotone voice :-p)
Now, see, there's that smile again. Thank you. :)
It's ok Lubyanka, my OH doesnt mind sharing me, so im yours if you want me ;) haha xx
Morbidia wrote:
It's ok Lubyanka, my OH doesnt mind sharing me, so im yours if you want me ;) haha xx
Ok, today's good for me, can you be in Dublin in half an hour? Kvetch is still hissy fitting in the next room so I could use some warm and friendly company. :/
Lubyanka wrote:
Ok, today's good for me, can you be in Dublin in half an hour? Kvetch is still hissy fitting in the next room so I could use some warm and friendly company. :/
Mid-Wales to Dublin in 30 mins??? I can blood well try ;)
Morbidia wrote:
Lubyanka wrote:
Ok, today's good for me, can you be in Dublin in half an hour? Kvetch is still hissy fitting in the next room so I could use some warm and friendly company. :/
Mid-Wales to Dublin in 30 mins??? I can blood well try ;)
Ok, I'll give you an hour or two, can you be here in time for [insert silly television thingy here]?
I'll put the kettle on. :)
I'd say leave it a while for kettle boiling, dont want a cold cuppa when i get there ;)
Right, let me know when and I'll stick it on. :)
Nexas wrote:
Morbidia wrote:
It's ok Lubyanka, my OH doesnt mind sharing me, so im yours if you want me ;) haha xx
Damn, there's that jealousy again :-p
Im sowwy, i cant help it :(
Nexas wrote:
Morbidia wrote:
Nexas wrote:
Morbidia wrote:
It's ok Lubyanka, my OH doesnt mind sharing me, so im yours if you want me ;) haha xx
Damn, there's that jealousy again :-p
Im sowwy, i cant help it :(
LOL He can't share you with me? :-p
I'd rather you'd attempt asking him that :-P
Lubyanka wrote:
Carly made a lot of good points which I agree with. If my partner were to approach me and ask how I felt about them doing a stripping job, then I'd be fine with that in principle.
On the other hand, if my partner were to present me with a wish to take a stripping job to make a bit of cash, then I'd wonder why the money was being emphasised. Why stripping? As Carly so rightly pointed out, it's really low paying and there are loads of better paying jobs to be had. So my trust would certainly be challenged because I'd know something was being concealed.
I'm not surprised you're wife isn't happy about the idea, even within polyamory I'd greet a proposal like that with considerable skepticism.
Personally I like the idea of farming out my partner to service other people, he's really hot and I like other people drooling over him. :) But I think with the sex industry the way it is, this would stay a lot easier, safer and hotter if I avoid the cash element and its affiliated obligations, and farm him out only to the people I choose and under terms I specify.
Still, you can practice stripping for your wife, and that could be hot. :)
I'm loving the use of the phrase "farm him out"...I'm imaging a glorious field with row upon row of shirtless hotness just waiting for Lady Lubyanka to pick her crop of the day to send to market!
xxKPxx
Nexas wrote:
*blink blink* Um....LOL
It's kinda funny actually, does he have any idea just how much I know about your sex life with him? :-p LOL
Yeah, he does actually, well, he knows you're on here, but seriously, think about it, you dont really know THAT much, do you? :-P
Nexas wrote:
Um...I know certain things that most people wouldn't LOL
Wait, he knows I'm on here!? LMAO Does he know I know who you are?
Yeah, of course he knows you're on here, and yah, he knows you know who i and he is, lol