Does anyone here have any suggestions or recommendations of cam to cam sites where you can masturbate with others without having to pay these ridiculous membership fees? I have tried edited in the beginning was great but now it seems to be a gimmick. I’m so horny and in need of release but desire that interaction with others that are real and normal people not some paid porn star or web model. I want to orgasm with others needing the same
Umm think this post might be tinkering on the edge of forum rules but I can say you’ll have a tough time finding such a site as to what your after as these days everything is highly driven by profiting on peoples urges.
Your best bets are to find some sort of dating forum or app that you can openly talk with likeminded people to connect with and go forward that way maybe 
I’ve noticed in recent weeks Facebook has many random groups now for dating and stuff what people are using to gain sexual attention so maybe have a look on there 
Sorry to all if this crossed the line I wasn’t sure exactly and I didn’t mean to offend or miss the rules completely
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Sorry I can’t recommend anything @yote023, it’s not something that I have any experience of. I just wanted to pick up on the fact that one of your other threads was about a lack of intimacy in your marriage - I am assuming that this is why you are looking for sites like this? Personally I would see this as stepping over the line into being unfaithful but many others wouldn’t, I’m a bit old fashioned! I just wanted to say, be sure that you don’t do something that you will later feel guilty about. If you don’t see it that way then great, go ahead, but if you have any doubts make sure you’ve thought it through before acting on anything.
I think your thread is fine by the way, I don’t think it’s breaking any rules and I don’t think it’s offensive in any way either. Sorry you’re going through this (it’s rubbish, I’ve been there too). Hopefully someone else will have some better advice than mine!
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Couple friends not coke sorry
It really sounds like you need to tell her how you feel and possibly give her a choice - work with you on your marriage or leave. I know it’s harsh but it really sounds like you’re in a toxic relationship with someone who isn’t willing to try. To get to the point where you are feeling this way is sad and I totally understand why you feel you need that human connection and feeling of being desired. If you can’t make your marriage work and decide to leave, there will be someone out there who will find you attractive and want to be intimate with you, you just need to find the right person. Just make sure that you’ve made the right decision for yourself whatever you decide to do.
I would see this as you being unfaithful if you went down that route. Also sex sells, thats why its expensive 
I absolutely acknowledge that its really difficult and frustrating for you. From what you’ve said, regular interactions are not good either.
I’m being really blunt here, you say she just tolerates you, she wears the lingerie you’ve bought for her when she’s not with you (gifts don’t have conditions!) and she’s demeaning to you, so why are you still in the relationship?
Having a handy wank over it is one thing but caming personally is another step dude.
Can I give you my perspective.
I am a web cam model, I am paid to spend time virtually with men and woman.
Can I say, as I’ve been doing this close on 3 years now, and I see lots of men like yourself. And while you get that instant gratification, it can very quickly turn into an addiction, and a costly one, Also, it doesn’t fix your problems, it will actually make them worse. I’ve had several guys, spend a lot of time and money with me, and it becomes a fantasy land, where some have been addicted to being with me, that also brings, depression, etc. alot of men/women start off just web cam and flirting, before you know it, you’ll need more, and then paying for escorts, it’s a slippery slope.
I’m not trying to put you off, but I think talking to your wife, and telling how it’s really affecting you is where you need to begin.
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I’m a web cam model and just want to say first off that web cam models are real, normal people.
There are sites that don’t require massive registration fees ( can’t name them for obvious reasons) but you will pretty much always need to tip the model or pay in some way for a cam to cam interaction because the women on these sites are there to make money.
It can be addictive but it doesn’t have to be. If you can detach your emotions from the physical act of masturbation with a woman online then you’ll most likely be fine. The problems arise when you start to cam with a woman very regularly and form a kind of online relationship.
I’ve had a few fellas who’ve become a bit obsessive but I’ve always made it crystal clear that I’m married and have no desire to step outside the camming arena with anyone… its strictly a job for me even though I enjoy doing it.
It’s up to you what you do but to be honest your marriage doesn’t sound a happy one and seeking satisfaction on a cam site will ease your frustrations temporarily but won’t make your problems go away. Indeed it may make things worse if your wife finds out.
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Every time you say ‘but’ you’re giving yourself permission to cross lines based on her actions. She did it, so you can too. That attitude is toxic. Her attitude is toxic.
I’d be well out of that.
Good luck to you!