love this forum

unlike in real life you can be honest about all things sexual without fear of being judged

great for new ideas be that toys or techniques

i agree

what is the one thing you would love to do most that you havent

threesome :-) trying to convince oh that it is a good idea.

my oh would never go for a 3sum

she has become really boring recently hence going to get her some sexy outfits and see whether that helps

my husband was far less conservative re sex before we married - now even anal is off the cards. im working on bringing him back out of himself.

let her choose some porn that includes things she would like to do and start to act it out but stat out slowly. also get some elegent silk negliges etc - she will feel sexy but nit slutty which might start to bring her out of herself

i ve tried that, i brought her this lovely nightie which wasnt slutty at all and not interested.

it was like last night we both had a shower not together and were getting dried in the front room so i started to dry her back for her, then started to slowly kiss her neck and all i got was

get off i want to go to bed

:-( maybe its worth asking if there is a problem. generally us women dont want sex if we are upset at our partners for other reasons. pure exhaustion can also be an issue - im off sick since july and my sex drive has gone sky high since not having 14 hour days and mega stress

meal out and a chat?

you could be right

hey if you oh is never interested in you let me know and i be there lol

Citygirl2810 wrote:

unlike in real life you can be honest about all things sexual without fear of being judged

great for new ideas be that toys or techniques

I have to agree.

Its great to be yourself and not feel embarrassed or judged by what you say.

It's great on here, and I've made done lovely friends x

Everyone so friendly on here its so lovely! =D

It's fun being able to share with like minded people who are so friendly :-)

I agree, this forum is great. I love how open minded people are and how easy it is to share.

I agree, this is a great forum. I'm still finding it difficult to really open up and share, must be an age and upbringing thing? But I will keep trying.

just share as much as you are comfortable with liz :-)

Citygirl2810 wrote:

unlike in real life you can be honest about all things sexual without fear of being judged

great for new ideas be that toys or techniques

Wow I have just posted the same thing on a differant thread.

FUNLOVINGLIZ wrote:

I agree, this is a great forum. I'm still finding it difficult to really open up and share, must be an age and upbringing thing? But I will keep trying.

No body judges, feel free when you are ready ask whatever you want and enjoy

i think the only thing missing is a private chat facility - however i expect it would be abused

We are really open with each other in our relationship.

Still learning about each other sexually but its great fun reading what other couples get up to and learning about new things to try.

I didn't know what pegging was till I came on here, but have wanted to be pegged, didn't even know it had a name....lol

I agree. It's a great forum I love the honesty of everyone and the diversity of the threads.