Hi guys haven't posted in a long time, sorry if this has already been discussed, I have searched and searches but cannot find anything.
Was just hoping for some tips or advice on, not an issue but something that could become one in the future.
I'm currently seeing someone, who I absolutely adore! We've known each other for about 4 years and been together for 5 months, I was currently with my ex for 3 years, during that time I became more confident, especially
In the bedroom, I have a very kinky side to me, and my current partner is aware of that and accepts it. Although. He is very new to the whole thing, he's had 2 partners before me that treated him like shit, hes told me his sex life was very bad, his first gf would never let him finish, as soon as she was done that was it, and she had a 6 month afair behind his back, they didn't do any positions other than him on top, and the same for the second one, I was his first blow job! I am a very open person when it comes to all things sex, a variety of friends always come to me for advice, by no
Means do I say I know everything but I'm open minded, my OH on the other hand. Finds it very difficult to talk about sex, don't get me wrong, we have an amazing sexlife, but I'm like the queen of tease! I've been called it a couple of times from past partners, my OH has said to me he hates teasing, because it gets him
Too riled up, I've explained that's sort of the purpose, he's attempted to let me tease him more as it benefits me and him! He even said sex was more intense and fulfilling, but there's still a limit as to how much, from what uni can gather, he doesn't like to spend too much time on foreplay either, he will give and take, but tends to stil to doin the same thing every time, yes it works but it's like he won't explore me, and that's all part of the fun with new partners, exploring each other.
What advice I'm looking for really is how to get him to open up more, and to talk about sex instead changing the conversation, I try and get him to be playful, sending sexts, pics etc, he doesn't respond, how can I break him in to it? In a matter of speaking lol
He is willing to try things but it's the talking about stuff and initiating things, it always is usually me initiating sex, I'm a girl who loves to be dominated, for him to just take control once in a while, is that too much to ask?
Sorry for the long windedness!
I hope it makes sense and I'm not babbling lol
Any help would be appreciated!
Butters x