I think there are some on here that have totally reacted above and be hond. I see nothing wrong with what @Iwill has said, he was just stating the facts. I really think the subject should be closed down now and everyone should accept there can be a difference in views. There are more important issues in the world.
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Have moved my comment to the appropriate thread.
@OddThomas asked
āIf mens uploads are discouraging women from uploading, prehaps LH could create a second lingerie photos spot for the ladies?ā
This is ridiculous.
I donāt post photos of myself because I donāt want to. I posted one a while back, and donāt feel the need to post my body again.
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LH is a safe place to discuss our kinks etcā¦ strong textIf you donāt like something then please donāt say it. strong textYou donāt have free speech totally in this forum.
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So if you dont like something that has been said then you surely shouldnt be arguing about someones observations
I agree with @Iwill 100% and have said before i skip passed the photos. Not my thing but happy for the person to participate in such stuff.
I think, reading this seems like a witch hunt at will for posting his opinions, so id suggest a change in subject instead of getting offended about an online forum thing.
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Curiousā¦ why post an image? There are those that are exhibitionist but thatās not your thing as far as I can tell.
Not to assume @JoCat ās reasons, as everyone has their own, but I know for me, Iāve posted photos before when Iāve really liked how something looked, or I was having a good day and feeling confident.
I might have posted because someone had wondered how something looked on a plus size person, so they could see it in reality.
Those are the reasons that come straight to mind at least. Might have been others at the time. Nothing to do with being exhibitionist.
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Great explanation @MsSubExperimenter . I was actually thinking about this topic with regards to myself. Back in the day I shared tons of images online so I asked myselfā¦ why? I dug into my old archives to review all my images and it seems to me my motivation at the time was either from a photography standpoint (nice or creative photo) or to show off an idea or interest for a certain discussion. That being said, I had forgotten about a website I used to run that had a monthly themed photo contest. It would be things like sexy with a hat, make a sexy outfit from garbage bags, adult version of the website name, etc. Some of those personal photos are really funny and if out of contextā¦ wellā¦ what the heck are you doing? LOL
Because I wanted to.
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We have only been here for a year now and I think its been quite obvious that there are many people that are after certain content from certain members, you only have to read and see reactions, itās certainly seems to be, not so much about ālingerieā and more the content with in it and I think that this debate has highlighted that even more so.
The thread is not about only seeing what you want to see!
If you want to see more women in lingerie then google it !
There are many men that have smashed some of the lingerie picture and look way better than most women probably could in the same peace.
And to be honest you have probably made you wait for specific content longer , even if I was going to be posting a new picture, I certainly wouldnt be posting now and looking desperate for the attention and approval of a select group.
(Mrs)
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I think too many people join the forum thinking itās a perv kind of sex talk about anything.
Itās all about sexual awareness /happiness and advice and being happy in what you are or into and not being ashamed of it.
If you want to perv there is plenty of other forums out there.
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The Lovehoney Forum is a place for genuine, non-judgemental, sex positive chat.
We will not be seperating the Lingerie thread by gender, that goes against everything the forum is about. The thread is open to everyone, no matter what. As @Ian_Chimp suggested, I can see value in separating it a bit based on category, but absolutely not on the basis of what is in someones pants.
If you wish to only see AFAB bodies in lingerie, then there are plenty of places on the internet where that is possible, this space will not be becoming one of them.
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@teacake ā¦ i find the last part of your post quite incredible!!
This is my last comment on the exchange.
I never said men shouldnāt wear or post images of themselves wearing āwomensā lingerie .
All i said was, it seemed to be mostly men posting photos in the subject category.
āIm somewhat puzzled as to why , the Lingerie photo uploads , seem to have been taken over in the main by guys wearing female Lingerie. Its up to blokes to wear what the want, but female Lingerie was designed for the female form and the (male physique doesnt lend its self to some of the dimensions in the lingerie design ( i have ammended slightly due to an MOD edit)ā¦ In my humble opinion.
I appreciate i will no doubt get flak from various directions, but i just appreciate female Lingerie on a female figure.ā
Lets move on, apologies to the easily offended.
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You just need to think about others, people who have different kinks find it very hard to be accepted so posting pictures and non pictures can be very awkward and hard.
@Iwill I seem to remember you saying the same thing apologies the last time but didnāt say it until you had to. Please learn that some folks get easily offended when it comes to their body. Iām not talking just about photos.
If itās something you donāt like then there is no need to make a comment. Iām speaking on half of everyone who feels a bit different from other people and want to be accepted.
The thing is one person will say something then another agrees and so on. Had you not said this there wouldnāt of been a problem.
As said this has been dealt with the right way now.
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@teacake . I didnt āhave toā apologise, i offered apologises to the easily offended.
I dont think it was dealt with in any way.?
Its done now so lets move on.
Looking forward to future beautiful lingerie photo posts.
Has the format on anyone elses āappā changed? Mine has been different since last night and its while annoying. Its the same when I load the forum from webpage.
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@JoCat Yes on my android phone last night I noticed it happened around 8.30pm but it hasnāt effected my Android Tablet.
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Yes, for some reason a second identical topic column has been createdā¦ Iām assuming itās a mistake that will be fixed today 
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Yeah noticed it earlier this morning, seems the topic category tag has doubled somehow 
Perhaps something can be done on @Lovehoney_Brennaās end
(Android phone for me, using app)
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@teacake @Peitho @RacyRosalee thank you! Android for me too, I didnāt check my tablet but that is android as well. I hope it gets fixed soon!
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Mines like it too, sorry but itās annoying and hopefully it can go back to how it was
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Iāve raised it as an issue, definitely not good! 
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