This is a friendly place where adults can discuss all things sex and sex toys with like-minded people (without perv alarms going off). If you’re looking for things like sex toy recommendations, advice on how to spice up your love life, sexy lingerie tips, or some new bondage tricks, then you’re definitely in the right place.
But we cannot stress this enough, the Lovehoney Forum is not a site for dating, arranging hook-ups, exchanging flirty messages, or posting graphic images.
Before you get stuck in please read our Lovehoney Forum Rules
I’m @Lovehoney_Brenna, and I’m the main forum moderator. There are other staff members who post to the boards too, and you can spot them easily as they also have ‘Lovehoney_’ tagged in front of their usernames.
To download the forum app to your phone open your browser menu on a forum page and tap ‘install app’.
If this is your First Day on the forums then you may encounter some limits on how much you can post, like, and mention other members. This is part of our spam filter, so it’s normally quite useful, but these will disappear 24 hours after your first post.
The forum uses a Trust system to grant more experienced members more perks and privileges the more they contribute (more likes to use, longer edit window, ability to upload photos, and so on). These are all based around how much you visit, read, like and post (and stick to the rules ). You can find out more in Trust Levels.
As this is a public forum almost all posts are publicly visible to anyone with internet access, and all the others are visible to anyone with a forum account, so make sure you’re happy with everything you choose to share.
It’s good forum etiquette to use the search bar to see if there are any recent topics on a subject you can join in with before creating a brand new one. The Search is really good, and we have over 10 years worth of members’ questions, advice and ideas to tickle your imaginations. And there’s also a list of popular searches below if you’re looking for inspiration…
Creating a new topic is really easy too. Simply tap from any of the main pages to bring up the editor, pick a relevant category, give it a meaningful title, type it all up, and press ‘Create Topic’ when you’re ready - and then sit back, relax, and wait for the replies to roll in.
If you ever need to contact me privately you can email me at email@example.com, or you can Flag any of my posts and use the ‘Something Else’ option to write me a short message.
Please do not email me asking how to be a tester, instead check out this topic that contains all the information you will need
Thanks for reading, and I’ll see you on the forums! @Lovehoney_Brenna
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Where are the #games?!
The #games topics are ‘opt-in’, so you only get the ones you interact with appearing in your Latest newsfeed. To have a browse of them all go to the #games category, and they’re all ready and waiting to be played in there.
More info: About Games
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