I prefer clean to be honest.
1 Like
Depending on the situation…
Certain things cleaning is a must…
Others not
2 Likes
If it’s a spur of the moment thing I don’t mind.
For me if receiving oral I would prefer to of showered in the last few hours and same if I’m giving.
Any anal play doesn’t happen unless freshly showered and normally douched also.
1 Like
I tend to prefer clean as well. I think part of cleanliness is sometimes the elimination of some unneeded body hair. I have hair on my shaft and when I went for a vasectomy about 11 years ago, I took all the hair off, everything. It has done wonders for a longer sexual duration as I am not rubbing a wire brush into my wife but it also has caused her to take her hair down which is more appealing to me for oral.
This wasn’t a hair conversation, but we are in the zone of keeping things neat and kept… it tends to lean towards easier clean ups and less odor. Some people love hair…I’m not a fan and neither is she and it makes it alot more sensitive and fun!
Just our own preference…
2 Likes
I prefer to be have a shower and be completely clean for myself but I do love that sweaty after club sex remember those days!
I must be the opposite to everyone because I love when my bf is all sweaty, not from a workout but just from the end of the day, that sweaty musty smell really does something for me 
6 Likes
If we’re having sex then I don’t mind too much, but if I’m going to give him oral then he needs to be fresh as a daisy 
However, he likes to take me as I come. Even if I’ve just got home from the gym, all hot and sweaty - he’ll still pounce on me and dive right in for oral and everything 
I used to feel unsure but now, I just let him do what he likes 
5 Likes
As a parent with young kids, I’ll take it whenever and however it comes!!!
Smelly or freshly cleaned, she’s amazing… 
11 Likes
Same as most of the others prefer clean. Especially if we are doing oral I have had a few bad experiences many years ago and it stayed with me.
2 Likes
I know what you mean, to be honest I wouldn’t say I prefer her to be unwashed as I don’t really care either way but I do like there to be some evidence of her having a good time if that makes sense.
My Oh on the other hand can’t stand anything other than freshly scrubbed. She’s got a very sensitive nose which is a bit annoying at times but she more than makes up for it 
2 Likes
In general I’m not fussed, unless the odour is particularly strong (as can happen near that time of the month) but even then, after the first few seconds it just develops into her natural smell / taste which I’m all good with. I think “freshly cleaned” is actually a bit bland, it loses her scent a bit, but that can be perfectly fine too.
She likes freshly clean / shaven balls, but isn’t afraid to go there before a shower too. I don’t have a physical job, so its never too bad sweat wise.
The only time either of us get a little iffy is with analingus, I am very self conscious if she is venturing there and I haven’t showered, she is definitely more hesitant when performing it too.
2 Likes
@KinkyMira, haha he’s not weird in my opinion, a little manky (sweaty p*ssy smell) can be quite nice, so long as it’s not been more than a day. If we think back to cavemen and cavewomen, washing daily just wasn’t an option… that said, oral sex probably hadn’t been discovered back then 
2 Likes
Depending on what and where we been if we home all day a quick clean is a good thing but a night out we normally get started on walk hime so dirty is ok passion takes over
1 Like
Hell yes 
100% agree.
1 Like
Best answer!
My OH has a bit of a heavy job so he jumps in a shower straight after work as that’s his preference, but I must admit like others have said I’m a sucker for that fresh sweaty smell. Not a foul BO smell but a fresh “I’ve been being strong and fit all day” sort of smell lol. He’s generally a very clean guy though so even if he hasn’t showered he’s always still relatively fresh.
For me, if I know I’m having sex I’ll make sure I haven’t had a particularly sweaty heavy going day and we’re both comfortable with that. But if I know I’ll be recovering oral I jump in a quick shower, even if it means making him stick on a porno and waiting for me to get out
2 Likes
I don’t really mind to be honest.
Generally we have morning sex then shower afterwards so it’s usually the best part of 24 hours since either of us have cleaned up. We’re both retired though so neither of us have need to break sweat during the day.
1 Like
My preference is within about 6 hours of showering, although upto 12 is fine as long as I/we can freshen-up with baby wipes.
I don’t think my OH minds as much as I do because even when I’m wanting to disappear into the bathroom for a quick wash, he’ll be dragging me back saying everything is fine… Then again, he probably knows that if he lets me in the bathroom, I’ll be distracted by the towels he left in a mess 
4 Likes
@Baby_Jane My husband always reckons the longer after a shower, the better taste I have. If anything, if I shower directly beforehand, he is less likely to want to lick me out.
I think often us women seem to worry too much about this. I have learned to just let him get on with it and to not worry. If he isn’t concerned, why should I be?
7 Likes