So, have been with my gf for over a year... and without sounding egotistic (mwahaha) I would say I have a pretty good oral technique (she cums everytime). BUT - I reckon you should always strive to get better and better at these things. And this site has given me some amazing advice thus far.
Have any of you lovely orgasm army peeps got any weird or wonderful techniques that they use when going down on their girl?
The wetter the better ;)
My GF loves it when I suck on her clit as she's about to cum and rather than short flicking motons she prefers spirals or long strokes with the back or front of my tongue. She also loves it when I rub her clit between my bottom lip and the underside of my tongue. Try a bit of warming lube as well making sure that it's safe to consume as that always seems to work as well.. as long as you can stand the taste, some of them are manky!!
Cheers Geordie Paul - we've only ever used the plain id lube, which is fairly rank if it gets in mouth. I like the idea of rubbing her clit between underside of my tongue and bottom lip...hmm have lip piercing so may add to the sensation.
I really want to focus more on her clit, I tend to get carried away after licking and sucking her clit for a while - I start to fuck her which is a sure fire way to an orgasm.
I know you can get vibrating attachments that attach to tongue bars, maybe you can get a similar thing for lip piercing.
Geordie_Paul wrote:
I know you can get vibrating attachments that attach to tongue bars, maybe you can get a similar thing for lip piercing.
We are going to get one of these, seen a few on FleaBay that we liked the look of - oh how I LOVE having a fella with a pierced tongue ;) x
I highly highly recommend the Durex Cherry Lube, am sure others will agree....! It tastes SOOOO yum! External Media There's a review on it on my profile page xxx
Ive got my tongue pierced and have done for some years now and to say its helpful with a vibrating tongue bar is an understatement!!!
one tip tho your tongue goes numb after a little bit from the vibrations which is good fun as you cant feel what your doing so you can go longer licking away without your tongue aching.
Make sure you pay her ass some attention, make sure you tease & tickle it with your tongue, when she is on the final lap & building for a nice orgasm, slowly ease a wetted finger or thumb into her ass, let her grind down onto it as she climaxes. The missus says this always ake her cum extra hard, don't do it every time so it stays special & naughty. A Butt plug or tiny vibe work well too.
apart from that make sure you ease up & let her orgasm die off before starting again to really tease her & build a MASSIVE orgasm!
Hiya punky-lez, fabbie avatar by the way !!! well done.
Mrs T possesses remarkable will power at times and will pull away from me when l have licked and nibbled her to her own screaming heaven. Working on the same principle therefore l guess if you can stand the frustration, by taking your g/f to the edge several times over- the more the better- then the final release should surely be a lulu !!! Mrs T also likes the added stimulation of a butt plug !!
Is this any help at all??
Tallboy
Cheers folks - some excellent tips. Can't WAIT to try 'em out! Tallboy - I do attempt to get to her to the edge and then stop but she tends to go a bit mentalist on me as she wants to cum lol. Still...if she was tied to the bed then there's not a damn thing she could do about it hmm....*starts pondering* Defo going to go with the sliding a butt plug in just before she cums.
I think my problem is that I get so carried away that I forget about the wee added extras!
I have actually taken my tongue bar out (was starting to munch on it), it's only a side lip piercing iv got so not sure about the whole vibrating thing.
Lava Twilight did you see vibrating lip thingies online??
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Hiya punky, for added stimulus you might wanna try a vibrating butt plug but don't forget the lube, although natural lube may save the day l guess in your case, imagine finger first as per Mucky's suggest followed by vibratory insert!!!.
The tying her down sounds like a good idea if she is greed for more that way as you get close to orgasm.
Good luck.
Tallboy
Hey Tallboy,
Sorry my brain v.fuzzy - what you mean "the tying her down sounds like a good idea if she is greed for more that way as you get close to orgasm"?
Heheh am I hungover? mmm hmmm.
Hangover sex is the best! I always get so randy when I have a brain fuzz!
Also every now & again we stick a porno on during oral sex, it really adds an extra ounce if you are watching someone else get sucked off or licked out as the same happens to you! It's also better for her to look at a beautiful lady on screen than some hairy arsed bloke tying to lick the shine off it trying to breathe through his ears!
"Hairy arsed bloke trying to lick the shine off". Oooooh yum scrum. My uLtImAtE fantasy (nawt).
We've got some fantastic lesbian porn (ie. is actual dykes not some long nailed, screeching monsters poking each other at a million miles per hour *shudder*) .... and it certainly did the trick last time - me going down on her while she watched her fav scene.
Fuck I'm horny!
punky_lez wrote:
Lava Twilight did you see vibrating lip thingies online??
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Yeps, I saw them on Ebay, I typed in 'Vibrating Tongue Bars', there's some real funky looking ones on there atm that I'm going to get on Payday :D Can't wait to try them out! x
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punky_lez wrote:
Hey Tallboy,
Sorry my brain v.fuzzy - what you mean "the tying her down sounds like a good idea if she is greed for more that way as you get close to orgasm"?
Heheh am I hungover? mmm hmmm.
Your thoughts of tying her down sounds like, with all the other stuff you have in mind to do to her, like a plan that should have her scream the house down !!!
Good luck TB
Tongue the A,B,C's - literally make the letter shapes with your tongue.
One thing Mrs Strapon really seems to enjoy, is when I totally ignore her clit and focus on her lips.
I tend to suck them and run my tongue around her pussy and then slide my tongue inside her pussy, but then every 10 seconds, I will give her clit a really quick hard suck or a powerful lick, but literally for half a second.
This makes her have a massive full body twitch...and because she knows the next one is coming soon, she's constantly on edge! I tend to delay how long I leave between each burst on her clit, so sometimes she wont get any attention on her clit for 30 seconds and other times she'll get 3 twitches in 5 seconds!
She finds it very frustrating and hates the fact that she can't control the twitches! This usually leads on to the sexiest thing a woman can do...where she gets too horny, grabs my head and pushes it towards her clit! At this point....I generally give the poor girl what she wants and suck and flick away at her clit for a prolonged period of time, which leads to multiple orgasms! x
Is it wrong that just reading this has given me some very horny thoughts? ha ha
strapon- i completely agree- when i have received oral, i also love to be teased, licked and kissed and sucked everywhere apart from my clit, i prefer to leave that till last. The leg twitching thing made me smile- i fookin hate the leg twitching. Shows vulnerability ha ha exposes your weaknesses!
punky lez i completely agree- i hate 'lesbian' porn which is so fake! massive turn off
have fun thinking of ways, and expreimenting...ohhh check my reviews...lust dust is good
PPB
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PPB...Mrs Strapon hates the fact that I make her twitch, because she consistently makes me twitch when she goes down on me...and when I see her smile because she knows I can't do anything about it...it does my head in!
So when I started making her twitch...she hated it! It was the one thing she had over me and now I can do it too! lol.
Deep down, we both love it obviously, but ur totally right that it exposes ur weaknesses! There's absolutely nothing you can do to stop it...and it gives ur partner serious bragging rights!
Does feel seriously good though! Funny thing is though....no girl had ever made me twitch before Mrs Strapon...and now I can even make myself twitch after pleasuring myself! She seemed to press a button that unleashed this twitching thing in me and now I can't get rid of it! x
