I thought I’d jump in and ask a question straight away, when I normally masturbate at my Mums or my student house I use my vibrator as nobody can hear it. But when I’m at my Dads you would be able to hear it so I have to just use fingers to masturbate.
The issue is now I’m used to using a vibrator, I take a long time to orgasm using fingers. Does anyone have any tips to make it better?
Usually use two fingers of one hand to spread my labia revealing my clit and then with my index finger on my other hand slowly circle round it until I start to feel a tingling sensation at which point I concentrate more attention to my clit. Sometimes, when I am moving towards the point of orgasm, I will release my labia and slip a couple of fingers inside myself playing with my g-spot. That normally takes me over the edge.
It does seem to take me longer to orgasm through using my fingers alone, than when using toys.
Is this turning into a JOI thread? Because I’m here for it.
(Sorry, as a man I can’t give advice other than what I’ve done/observed with previous partners.)
If you mainly use a vibrator, you will train your body to orgasm that way so it will be harder with your fingers. I suggest using your fingers every so often at your mums and student house so your body is used to more variety of regular stimulation which will make it easier to orgasm with your fingers
It’s difficult as once you use toys it’s not always easy to go back to just playing with yourself - however it’s still done but takes time - personally I would look to but a silent toy 
Could you couple your fingers with a silent toy? Just a regular dildo or butt plug?
You can could try adding some nipple play have one hand stimulate your breasts and nipples and the other on your clit?
Yeah I might have to try coupling fingers with something else, I’ll look into it
I pretty much always watch porn when masturbating