This is a little embarrassing, but I wanted to ask and well, my efforts at googling were not so great.
So, I seem to have a bit of a hard time with vaginal penetration. Granted I'm still a virgin, but I've got a colourful drawer of toys I'm trying out, so I don't think that has much to do with this.
Sometimes, it really works for me, and it's painless and pleasurable. Other times, more often unfortunately, it's painful and frustrating so I just give up. I have this-
The Ammunition RO- 160mm Big Bang Bullet Vibrator
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22552
and-
the Jessica Slimline rabbit vibe
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15335
and I've been able to take them fine before. However it's only occasionally, most of the time even when I'm really looking forward to vaginal stimulation, it feels so uncomfortable I just give up and go for clitoral.
I recently bought the Ice scream waterproof multispeed vibrator-
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16364
and yesterday I finally worked myself up enough to try and use it for internal stimulation. I brought lube and gave myself a lot of time and used a vibrator on my clit as well but I just couldn't do it.
Thing is, I love vaginal penetration. The times that I've done it and where it's gone well, it's been fabulous and I've had some of the best orgasms that way. More often than that it just hurts too much, even when I use a small, normal bullet vibe. At the moment anal stimulation and penetration works more for me than vaginal does. Also, I don't like using my fingers because it just feels clunky and awkward and I can never get the right angle. :/
I'm all for exploring my body, and I'd really like to find a way to make this easier for me. I was just wondering if anyone else had a similar problem or any tips and techniques on how I could make this an easier, pleasurable experience. Any help would be great. :) Thanks! x