OK so I'm looking for some advice on toys suitable for my partner. There's lots of toys I'm eyeing up for myself or mutual pleasure but I'm interested in toys that just focus on his pleasure.
He isn't into anything anal, but does enjoy perineum massage etc, he doesn't like the idea of male masturbators with closed ends at all due to the thought of cleaning them out and other reasons. The toys we already own for him are the head master vibrating blow Job stroker and the double texture blow Job stroker and I do use a small bullet on him during foreplay.
Just really after something to surprise him with so any suggestions would be welcome.
TIA
Do you have a wand? The hummer attachment is awesome.
Also have you tried masturbation cups like the tenga eggs? Close ended but Single use so you ditch them after use.
Hey Cinderella, have you seen the blow to range of toys?
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/brands/blowyo/
They may be worth looking into if he doesn’t like closed end toys. I would say as someone who has plenty of strokers, the fleshlights and thrust toys are super easy to clean and feel fantastic.
Have you asked your partner what he would like to try? Maybe a blindfold? And just tease him or get a bullet and hold it in your palm while pleasuring him? That feels great and adds a whole new level of excitement for some who are sensitive to vibration. Costumes are exciting too, maybe get a few fishnet bodysuits or a fantasy roleplay costume? Plenty of sexy outfits to send him wild on Lovehoney:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sexy-lingerie/sexy-costumes/
Does he have any other preference as to the things he enjoys? Like being dominant or submissive, tickling, massages etc?
The more information you can give the more we can all help ☺️
Hia,
My partner's favourite penis toy is this:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=39192
It is closed ended but it hinges open so it can be fully cleaned and fully lubed before use. He says it's better than any other penis stroker. It is pricy tho, luckily I managed to win it for him on a sex blog competition.
He also enjoyed this before he got the tenga, which is a lot more affordable:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34068
Hope this is helpful x
Whoops, I didn't mean the vibrating one sorry, I meant this one, which is £100 cheaper!
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36407
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No we don't have one at the moment, but I have been curious because the reviews seem fantastic! I have seen the attachment for men but have wondered how beneficial a wand is for a man overall, because I've only really seen reviews from women with the odd mention of their partner. Ah that's good to know, I didn't even look into them because I assumed they were similar to other closed ended toys, thanksSum Sub wrote:
Do you have a wand? The hummer attachment is awesome.
Also have you tried masturbation cups like the tenga eggs? Close ended but Single use so you ditch them after use.
Yes I've looked at those, they do look good. There's two of them that I had my eye on for him and no doubt will purchase in the future but at the minute I'm after something that's not too similar to what we already own. I have read a lot of reviews on closed ended toys such as the ones you've mentioned and everyone seems to love them, there's just something about them that makes my partner uncomfortable. That's a funny one, he's very eager to use toys once they are here but prefers to leave the choosing up to me, maybe I'm just going to have to dig a little deeper. We've been together a very long time and I feel we know each other very well but when it comes to delving into the world of sex toys it's new to both of us so I wonder if I've made the best decision as silly as that sounds. I've done exactly that with a bullet and it went down a treat! Neither of us are specifically dominant or submissive it more depends on the occasion, he likes both (not helpful I know) he likes being touched all over in one way or another, before getting to the main event although tickling is a big NO for him. We've dipped our toe in a little very light bondage but I feel going a little bit further would work for us both. Thanks for your help.LIL_KNOWN69 wrote:
Hey Cinderella, have you seen the blow to range of toys?
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/brands/blowyo/They may be worth looking into if he doesn’t like closed end toys. I would say as someone who has plenty of strokers, the fleshlights and thrust toys are super easy to clean and feel fantastic.
Have you asked your partner what he would like to try? Maybe a blindfold? And just tease him or get a bullet and hold it in your palm while pleasuring him? That feels great and adds a whole new level of excitement for some who are sensitive to vibration. Costumes are exciting too, maybe get a few fishnet bodysuits or a fantasy roleplay costume? Plenty of sexy outfits to send him wild on Lovehoney:https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sexy-lingerie/sexy-costumes/
Does he have any other preference as to the things he enjoys? Like being dominant or submissive, tickling, massages etc?
The more information you can give the more we can all help ☺️
That does look like a better option thank you!Jezebella wrote:
Whoops, I didn't mean the vibrating one sorry, I meant this one, which is £100 cheaper!
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36407