Hello all, I am after a bit of help in choosing a butt plug.
I feel like I am missing out on this prostate massage thing, I feel a bit embarrassed to asked to wife to use a toy on me and I think she would be equally embarrassed.
I have previously purchased a small butt plug (cannot remember the name, it was small and purple lol). Whilst it felt ok it didn't really do anything for me so I am thinking about buying something a little longer and wider with the idea being that it would massage my prostate during sex.
I don't really want anything penis shaped but it needs to have a flared based and have enough length to do whatever it does to my prostate.
I have spent hours looking at all the various bum toys but cannot make up my mind.
Although standard butt plugs can be extremely pleasurable for both sexes, if you're specifically looking for prostate stimulation, you're better off looking at Prostate Massagers as they are designed especially for this purpose.
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Hey But plugs dont do much for me either i find length and girth works best for me and the climax you will get are freaking awsome. Mg uses toys on me i thought she would think i was weird or something before i asked her but when i did she said hmmm yeah id like to do that it sounds fun. So i was shocked when she said that and now she loves going to pound town on me. So dont be embarrassed bout asking your lady she might secretly like that aswell. As for toys try a pump massage plug witj vibrator built in that way you can choise how big you want it and it will stimulate your prostate during sex if your OH says no to giving you it. It us a awsome feeling when shes going down on you and thrusting your prostate Good luck and dont be embarrassed if you dont ask you dont get Hope this helps
It's a very simple, not too big but has enough length and the right shape to reach your P spot. The shape of the base is good for not being obstructive during sex and I would recommend she goes on top as the added weight will help it do it's work.
If your penis feels harder than normal and you get a butterfly feeling in your gut then it's exactly where it needs to be!
Hey bored, I would probably advise you to get a naughty boy toy, that was one of the ones I started with. It's quite small so won't hurt, but is curved to massage the prostrate, and the vibration feels amazing. There are different shapes to choose from, but the original feels great.
I'd go for any aneros that takes your fancy. The DeVice is perfect for me, right shape, right length but I suppose everyone's different. Rocks off toys are enormous and I don't think they're suited for use during sex.