Hello, @Vuxx.
Welcome to the Forum and thank you for your question.
Mrs H and I would recommend you practice the technique of “edging”. There are numerous items written on the subject if you search on the LH Forum, or the internet.
This involves cycles of increasing sexual stimulation (using your vibrating cock ring in your case) and then stopping just before the point of orgasm.
You can perform edging alone (as you have indicated that you prefer in your post), or with others.
The “edge” is the point just before orgasm.
I practice edging in a variety of sexual activities (solo/shared masturbation, controlled penetration, cock rings etc) in order to reach the point just before orgasm multiple times during my solo, or our shared sexual activity.
We use the:
Lovehoney Ignite 20 Function Vibrating Rabbit Love Ring
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/cock-rings/vibrating-cock-rings/p/lovehoney-ignite-20-function-vibrating-rabbit-love-ring/a45600g82132.html
Whilst I enjoy edging with this cock ring, using the single button to control the vibrations in order to avoid over-stimulation and my inevitable orgasm can, sometimes, prove tricky
Just recently, we have began using the remote control bullet vibrator with compatible cock ring that is included in the:
Lovehoney Sweet Romance Couple’s Sex Toy Kit (6 Piece)
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/sex-toy-kits/p/lovehoney-sweet-romance-couples-sex-toy-kit-6-piece/a48271g86062.html
This being a “couples” kit, is probably not suitable for your requirements - “… just solo play.”
Using a remote control in your (or your partner’s) hand to control the cock ring, is much less cumbersome than having to find a button control on the cock ring itself. The remote is perfect for “tease play” - which is basically what “edging” comprises.
The only other comparable remote remote controlled vibrating cock ring I am able to see on LH, is the:
Happy Rabbit Remote Control Cock Ring
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/cock-rings/vibrating-cock-rings/p/happy-rabbit-remote-control-cock-ring/a41197g75087.html
I have also used delay sprays and condoms -
Durex Extended Pleasure Latex Condoms.
Both are effective and helped in delaying my orgasm.
Hoping this is helpful for your requirements.
H