Vagina size

fat boy lover wrote:

Girls, is it just me or does ones pussy get larger with age. Yes Im 42 yrs old, yes I have 2 children (last born 2000) yes I have a healthy sex life and yes I do use realatively large dildos ( 8" )

But I 'm fit and exercising every day (pelvic floor and crunches )

Im only a size 8-10...weigh 8st 3 ...but I just cant seem to get that full feeling anymore..!

My latest 8" realistic dildo has ( what I thought when I ordered it ) a HUGE 7.5" girth...my hubby has only a 6.5" x 5.25" girth (maybe a little above average size dick)...so in theory Im gonna get filled up..!

At first it was WOW take it easy...but now my hubby can bang that thing into me as hard as he likes even doggie style and Im still left feeling like my pussy could take more girth..

So the question ...! is this age related or have I just got a rather large hungry pussy....!

I'm 37 with no kids and like you I have a very good sex life and like using big dildos, I am a size 18 and depending on what position I'm in i too can take quite a pounding from a big toy.

So I would probabily say that it's more about the position you are in rather than having a big pussy, from what I've read on this forum most of us girls seem to prefer doggie (I know I do).

Love the new pic by the way.

Hi Emma, thanks for the pic comment (this is my hubbys favorite of me)

Between the age of say 32 - 39 yrs I was hovering around the size 14 - 16 ...14 to be honest were often too tight to wear. During this period of time I found it very difficult to get that FULL feeling during sex. Probably only obtainable whilst taking it doggie.On my back, with him on top or me on top felt like been taken by (I hope my hubby doesn't read this..lol) a pencil...! Although I have to say I still came on a regular basis..!

I only owned one dildo back then, a 6" job bought in Amsterdam...my hubby did say buy any one, but I did not want to go as big as I wanted as I wondered what he'd think of me..! Sex was always good but no FULL feeling.This I have to admit is when I started to experiment (whilst he was on night shift) with vegetables..lol

Before long I was using larger and larger cucumbers to gratify my needs.....This was fine at first but started to leave me disappointed during sex with my hubby, as you can imagine a large hard object doesn't go soft so manual sex could last for hours..!This is when I got the notion of "thinner girls must be tighter down there" so diets , exercise and more exercise to leave me where I am today.Sex now is great with him able to penetrate me fully in any position due to my weight loss, but I still feel the need to take more...

Maybe I'm so aroused because during sex I'm constantly fantasising of larger guys (coloured gents mainly) but my hubby knows of this and is fine about it.

Mucky Duck....I've gone down that route before..it does work...! BUT then I remember whats hidden in my bottom draw and it leaves my pussy like an "open book" ....guess Im just naughty as well as greedy...!

fat boy lover wrote:

I only owned one dildo back then, a 6" job bought in Amsterdam...my hubby did say buy any one, but I did not want to go as big as I wanted as I wondered what he'd think of me..! Sex was always good but no FULL feeling.This I have to admit is when I started to experiment (whilst he was on night shift) with vegetables..lol

Before long I was using larger and larger cucumbers to gratify my needs.....This was fine at first but started to leave me disappointed during sex with my hubby, as you can imagine a large hard object doesn't go soft so manual sex could last for hours..!This is when I got the notion of "thinner girls must be tighter down there" so diets , exercise and more exercise to leave me where I am today.Sex now is great with him able to penetrate me fully in any position due to my weight loss, but I still feel the need to take more...

Maybe I'm so aroused because during sex I'm constantly fantasising of larger guys (coloured gents mainly) but my hubby knows of this and is fine about it.

I know what you mean about cucumbers had a few in my time, may be you should get yourself a monster dildo and see how that feels.

With regards to tightness I suppose that why I love Anal sex, I can really feel every thrust so well plus I know it's dirty and that turns me on even more.External Media

Emma, thats where I coming from my girl...the filthy thoughts in my head during sex...

I really enjoy anal,but like I said in a previous post he's not willing that much..!

Its the thought of it been wrong that gets me going....!

I have simular naughty thoughts whilst recieving doggie, cant get coloured guys dicks out of my mind...god It gets me so horny.....Monster dildo may be the only way.....!

MsD....You lucky girl...10" + how the hell does it feel...the thought of that drives me wild.

I've been in the "bigger is better" frame of mind for several years now, but as Im married (15 years) I've never strayed..nor would I so that elusive real 10" dick is out of my reach...!

Emma37

Just took a peek at your wish list....wow maybe the Realistic Gonzo is what I require...! LOL

fat boy lover wrote:

Emma, thats where I coming from my girl...the filthy thoughts in my head during sex...

I really enjoy anal,but like I said in a previous post he's not willing that much..!

Its the thought of it been wrong that gets me going....!

I have simular naughty thoughts whilst recieving doggie, cant get coloured guys dicks out of my mind...god It gets me so horny.....Monster dildo may be the only way.....!

How about this for size http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12598

A little too big me thinks, just watch the vid it's massive.

on the sex position side I find the Leapfrog position great for penetration.

Ooooohhhhhhhh my god.....! 9.5" girth.... No way its not posssible..

Im gonna pass on this one...! It may require medical help after use...!

I think this one is more do able plus you can pump it up as required

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11757

Yep..would definately try that, Girth on demand..Lol

Thanks for the help

Emma37..Just read your review on the Adam ana Eve dildo......

The dildo does not really interest me but riding it doggie on the pedestal ...why the hell have I never tried that..?

Usuall mine are stuck to the living room door...Lol

Hard to explain the suction cup marks to the kids the following morning...Lol

Excuse my naivety, but what is the leapfrog position?

Please don't tell me it's the daft looking porno one where the guy is crouched over like an ape!

Has anyone tried sitting on their bloke while he's on his back with his knees bent up? That looks really silly and I know I couldn't keep my balance!

I tend to laugh hysterically if my hubby puts one foot up when he's stood up behind me and I ask him if he's trying to be a porn star again. I LOVE deep and rough penetration but I've never even fancied something huge.

I don't think that body size/weight has anything to do with your internal sizing, I'm a size 16 (on a good day) myself and there is no position where I don't feel filled up by hubby, I do havea retroverted womb though and my cervix can be a bit tender sometimes. The thought of a 10 incher horrifies me tbh! back

Deepest for me is doggie, no surprises there, but also if he has me on my back , lifts up my hips and holds my legs open really wide or pushes my knees onto my shoulders, he can get really deep too.

Leap frog is like doggie but you rest your head on a pillow and arch your back thus pushing your vagina out more to increase penetratoin it is also a good position for anal.

Thanks emma - thank god for that! There probably isn't even a name for that stupid porno position.

We've been doing the leapfrog all along without realising it! Flat on your front is pretty awesome too, with just your bum sticking up, probably also good for anal - I've heard that doggie with legs closed is one of the best for anal??

We nearly had unintentional anal last night so it's probably on the cards, , I was on top of hubby and he had already come but I wasn't quite finished - I got a bit carried away, he slipped out and went to go back inside me and ended up slightly in my bum, I just laughed and said you do realise you're in my bum, he just said, oh well never mind - if he hadn't have already come I would have asked if he wanted to carry on and try it but I was nearly there and just wanted him back inside me to finish off. I just want it to happen naturally though, sort of in the heat of the moment, he loves to get behind me and play with my bum at every opportunity so I'm sure he fancies it too, he's probably as nervous of bringing it up as me though because even 6 months ago I would never even considered it.

Next time he is doing you from behind ask him if he will use a Toy on you at the same time that he is having sex with you, when he see how much you love it he'll soon put it up there.

That's what I did now my fella can't get enough

Unfortunately, he hates toys - he knows it's silly but he says it makes him feel weird to use them on me, as if he isn't enough to satisfy me. The couple of times he's used a vibe on me, it's ended in tears ( mine) because it's so obvious he hated it, I just can't get him to understand that I need a bit more stimulation sometimes and it has nothing to do with what he is doing. I bought one as a surprise thinking he would love it.

If i do ever get him in my bum, I would definitely want to see how a vibrator would feel at the same time, for the both of us - but I honestly don't know if he would go for it -DP really appeals to me, but dildos etc. are out of the question and if we're not both completely into it, there's no point.

I use Ben Wah balls which actully make a noise if they touch each other which goes down well at parties> My vagina is very large as I've had 4 kids but these balls help me concentrate on excercising. I do, however, enjoy a broad dildo

I have the opposite problem - I'm single at the moment (and never had kids) and i find a lot of vibes are too big (in girth) for me to fully insert them. I can't see to find any slimmer vibes that are appealing to me, is it possible i just have a narrow vagina?

Aquabunny wrote:

I have the opposite problem - I'm single at the moment (and never had kids) and i find a lot of vibes are too big (in girth) for me to fully insert them. I can't see to find any slimmer vibes that are appealing to me, is it possible i just have a narrow vagina?

what types of vibes have you used? theres some slimmer ones like the jessica rabbit jnr, or theres always clitoral vibes.

Ive also tried love eggs, i ve only had one sexual partner, and no kids so i find them a little uncomfortable