Has anyone experienced watching their OH with another man/ woman? I was watching a porn the other day with a man who was well endowed having sex with the other mans wife while he watched. At first I was like oh hell no...but as I continued to watch it kind of became a turn on. Has this thought went by anyone before or has actually experienced this? And if so how did this experience go?
You are refering to a cuckold experience. If you type it into the search bar you will find the posts relating to it.
Not just cuckold, watching your partner having sex with someone else is a normal swinging experience.
The first time you see it, it's quite a sight. The feelings both of us had watching the other one were excitement rather than jealousy.
For us both, it's one of the joys of swinging. When you have sex together you are obviously very close. To see your OH having sex at a distance gives you a completely different perspective, you can see how they react as they get into the sex and get more and more excited. Seeing your OH cum with someone else is fabulous.
If either of you are the jealous sort it would be a bad experience.
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I have always had this fantasy and really in two minds about it it’s such a turn on and really wanna see it but other hand it still feels weird the fact of another man inside my girl.
It's in our fantasy bank and we are starting to accept it is enevitable that it will happen. Her with another woman and me taking another woman anally. We are both turned on by the thought.
Not yet but is a fantasy for me I think if I was able to do this with him I would keep it strictly to no penetration first to see how it turns us on and if any jealousy eats at us is bad way sort of thing. I've had threesomes and foursomes before and always seems amazing before u try it but you also her know how you will really react the first time trying something new.
Like my man is straight and has watched me at a fetish club spank another man when I'm dominant and he has seen my bruises after I have been spanked by another man at a club he wasn't there to witness but was OK seeing my marks knowing it was purely only spanking and that he didn't even touch me etc.
I would love to see him pleasure another woman in front of me but don't think I could handle him having sex with them as a first time experience I'd like to build up to it and it be with someone we have no emotional connection with like someone we meet through the local fetish scene and clubs etc like when I spanked another man and he watched. It did nothing for him sexually as he's straight but we let him watch and he realised that he didn't like trying to talk to me when I'm dominant so we learnt something about ourselves which was great. I am submissive to him but dominant to others being a switch can be tricky sometimes lol.
I have a fantasy of me having sex with him as a woman rides his face . I'd also love to have sex with a woman or just oral pleasure with another woman In front of him as he watches (I like all genders and would love another woman in the room) I also like to watch as a voyour and one day want to try dp with two men but think I need to build up to it.
Different for everyone some just go straight into it all the way but definitely think a lot before u go and do it . I've heard of many relationship issues after stuff like this with some people who think building up to it may of been a better option.
I'd love to peg a guy one day if he would allow it knowing there's nothing personal going on etc. Even him I would but really don't think its his thing tbh.
Good luck !!!!!!
I've done this with a previous partner at swinging clubs and really enjoyed it!
It's something I'm desperate to do with my current partner and have attended swinging clubs a few times with her. Unfortunately she hasn't been up for full sex yet with someone else. I live in hope lol.
Yes we have experinced it, And I find it quite the turn on watching him with someone else.
I have to admit first time was during a threesome and at one point I wanted to shove the other girl off him.
These days I would find it weird if we didnt do these things.
If its something you would like to do O.P I would reccomend going to a swingers club,
Theres no need to take part untill you are comfortable.
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