Checked out the forum after a few purchases some years ago and used it to get info on possible purchases. As time went on i gave a few replies etc and got going from there.
Was checking most days for tester posts always hoping to get something different or a new experience.
Now i use most of what i know to advise others so they dont struggle like i sometimes do.
I lurked for a long time before joining in! Reason for looking in the first place would be around an interest in finding like minded people and exploring a new found interest in ways to keep things fresh in our marriage.
I like the forum because its sex positive and body positive. It has an incredibly caring community and unlike many online formats doesnāt suffer from nastiness just for the sake of it.
I think itās those things that made me come out of my shell and start actually contributing!
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Glad to hear it 
I like being here to share my love for lingerie and toys as well as get advice and share experiences 
xx
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I discovered the forum after I came on site looking for a new vibrator. At that point I had very few toys or much in the way of sexy lingerie, well how thatās all changed!
I plucked up the courage to introduce myself and join in and itās been one of the best things Iāve ever done. Iāve been given good advice whenever Iāve asked about anything and in turn I like to give advice if I think I can help anyone with a problem.
Iāve become more confident ,mainly due to posting pics on here and receiving complimentary responses. But the best part is that weāre all like a little community here , no one is judgemental . Iāve found some really great online friends here who I have so much in common with and I enjoy the chats and laughs along with gaining some valuable knowledge on certain subjects 
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Hoping to engage and learn new things amongst like minded people and maybe even test the odd toy 
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I came for the toys and stayed for the community! I honestly didnāt know what I was going to be getting into joining the community as most forums around sex or sex toys seemed to be filled with people that could be described as gross pervs. This forum, not so much. LH has done a great job making it a comfortable space for people to exist and talk about all things, not just sex. And I like that!
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This has been a rollercoaster couple of years , letās say Iām finding myself and this forum shouts out Fun , with lots of like minded people who I can
Chat with and ask questions
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I joined not knowing what to expect, itās the only forum I have ever used. I was cautious about what to reveal, as in the outside world I never/never had talked to anyone about personal/sexual issues. I grew up in the ābe a man and get on with itā era. I am a private person & I was pleasantly surprised, everyone on here are so kind, non judgemental, very helpful and caring.
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Thanks for the reply .
It is daunting to make that step, but
After reading peoples posts and comments Iām Iām really glad Iāve joined . Iām navigating the site at the moment just trying to find my way .
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@julietague136 if you have any problems @Ian_Chimp is your man without him the majority of us would be lost,he will not mind helping you at all (between you and me i think he loves it when someone comes up with something really tricky)
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Thankyou, looking forward to doing some reviews on what Iāve purchased. Itās great that I can get tips on getting the best out of the toys ect
Iāve just joined the forums after at least a decade break, likely much longer and my oh my the forums changed so much! The reason for rejoining is due to having much more time on my hands aswell as looking forward to connecting with other like minded peeps aswell as sharing advice and receiving advice tooā¦Have to say Iām very happy to be here again and looking forward to seeing all the changes around here and old and new facesā
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