Who went from no never to yeah, that feels nice. Also not necessarily penetration but at least a tongue or finger around the rim.
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Iād been married just over 13 years and never had anal, it was never even spoke about so I didnāt know it was even a thing.
After divorce I met a guy and one night he was slightly tipsy and accidentally found the wrong hole, and although it felt weirdly different, I enjoyed it and asked for it on many occasions.
When I married my 2nd hubby it was a no go area , maybe itās a thing guys learn at college, like once youāre married no ifs or butts 
Anyway back to single life and my butt is now getting more attention than ever ā¦thanks to LoveHoney for popping up on a Google search. Havenāt had the real thing for decades but my toy box is looking healthy 
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Interesting about the guy thing. I suppose for anyone who simply gets no pleasure from their butt they canāt envision anyone else liking it. Conversely, having a very pleasurable butt itās almost inconceivable for me to imagine someone else not liking it. And I mean rim play not any prostate pleasure.
From the number of male friends I know who just hate getting their prostate check ups, I think because most of their urologists are men thatās the hang up.
Also, getting pleasure from oneās butt is interesting as to why this is. Women getting pleasure from their clit or vagina is obvious - the drive to procreate.
Another topic maybe deserving its own thread is the subject of taboo. Iāve seen some comments in other threads about folks enjoying something just because itās on the taboo list. Donāt know who makes the list.
Regards your wrong hole story, when Iāve done this (gotta be honest not always by accident) and have said oops, wrong hole, the response has usually beenāoh sure on the oops partā.
I canāt remember when or how I found my butt is pleasurable. Iāve only recently had a partner who gives me anal play. Iāve probably never asked for it fearing a yuk response along with what kind of perv are you. Sex is tricky business.
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Being a typical Aquarian if something is on a taboo list Iād do it anyway.
I donāt think I could handle rimming, why play outside the door in the cold when you can go in and poker the fire .
Hey if you donāt ask you donāt get, aye it can get a negative response but it can be positive too. It doesnāt need to be a tricky business, just needs adults to communicate with an open mind and be open to suggestions.
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ā¦in the cold. Thatās great 
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Watching my GF. She married our husband, and I got to see how they did it. I decided I wanted to try it when I saw her indulging in some very toe-curling orgasms. And since there wasnāt a risk of pregnancy, I thought I might dip my toes into some heterosexual waters.
I donāt think anything āchanged my mindā because I donāt remember having any thoughts about it before I tried. I enjoy trying new things during solo play so when I first discovered sex toys and noticed that women were writing positive reviews about anal sex toys I decided that I might be missing out. Once I tried a small butt plug I realised that I had indeed been missing out! For some reason I have lost interest in anal play / sex at the moment but Iāve lost a lot of interest in sex generally too. Hopefully Iāll get back in the mood soon!
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We just sort of slipped into itā¦ 
It was something we were interested to try after reading a number of posts on the forum and the experiences other forum contributors.
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I was receiving a bj from OH and she started using a finger around my anus and I told her it felt nice and if she wanted to she could put her finger in when she did I said that feels amazing now slide it in and out please and fuck me with it
Sorry to hear youāve lost interest recently @Kitty-Cat01 , that must be frustrating. It definitely is a lot more difficult for females if you donāt have a person you trust and hormones are always a bitch!! If it goes too long, see your MD, sometimes itās an easy fix!
My wife was giving me a handjob one year and she thought she was playing around with my perineum, but she was actually prodding my anus hole. Up until that point I had no interest but since then it sparked my senses massively and now I own two prostate toys and sheās used one of them on me.
Just yesterday I came across @Mint-Monster very well written guest blog post on lovehoney, about what changed her mind with regards to anal. It was really helpful so thought Iād share it with my wife who feels the same way as @Mint-Monster used to. Might be worth a read
Link below:
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