Hi Lamblicker for me you are over half way there as you want to do this for him, lucky guy.
Start now, build the anticipation. Txt him leave little notes. Tell him how much you are looking forward to it and him.
We did this a a few months back for our wedding anniversary. I love being" edged "or lots of anticipation.so my wife said we were going to abstain for a week. The texts were all on the lines of I hope you are behaving because I want you full to the brim for me to get it all out over the weekend. One txt that really got me going was. She was so wet she had ,had to change her pants twice in the day.
She even spent most of the 2 hour drive asking me what I wanted to do over the weekend. When we arrived she made me wait even longer by saying she was hungry and wanted to eat first.in the restaurant We sat in a quiet corner and she whispered in my ear she had taken her pants off when she had gone to the loo. She kissed me wiped a finger under my nose and across my lips. She had obviously dipped it into her pussy I had to finish my meal with here scent under my nose.
When we got to our room we had planned a photo shoot with some jointly chosen lingerie. This was wonderful to do I had the camera going and a camcorder on a tri pod. It may sound a little strange but my Wife wasn't that confident or able to take the lead much before this. So I had asked her to try and she did and it was thrilling for us both.
After 3 outfits where she had changed out of my sight the last was very revealing crotchless knickers. She then took up more erotic poses. The idea I can look( take photos but not touch). We did some spread shots which were such a turn on. Then she masturbated and used some toys to come ,wow.
Now she really took control. We had a lovely big chair in the room she through the pillows and cushions in front of it. Sitting between my legs with me in the chair. Looked me in the and said" you are not to come until I say you can. I want you leaking precum and sat on that pre orgasm plateau as long as possible". She gave me an all over BJ taking care not to go to fast or hard if she took me in her mouth. After what seemed a long but wonderful time. She lubed me up and switch to HJ. Brought the camcorder in close she wanted to record my orgasm as she wanted to be able to see over and over. She had switched to her hands so she could maintain eye contact and talk to me and kept going slowly when I got close she switched to my balls and arse. I had to stop her twice. Then when she was ready she pumped me hard and fast. Telling me she wanted it now, give it to me, I want to see it pumping out of you now.
Hope this gives you a few ideas. Most of all have a great weekend.
The most amasing thing to happen to me in a long while was being tied to a chair. My Oh then stripped to her heels, lace top holdups and started caressing herself. She kissed me and touched me... And that was all. she then lied down on the floor and reached for her favourite toy....
You can fill in the gaps......
She ended up a very messy girl when she allowed me to errr... decorate her...
Lingerie, costumes, roleplay and her acting the part.
Some of the fantasy board games on here are great way start, because sometimes us men dont know what we want.
When it comes down to the action I love doggy style, so these knickers: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27313 are sexy and can stay on.
Other fantasies include a facial and being a bit risky like having sex in a hotel against the window were people could see. Oh the whole lingerie under a long coat at the hotel bar thing is a real tease.
Cowboy81 wrote:
lamblicker wrote:
Wow .. thanks all. First ..amanda your a stunner so go dance your hot little ass off :p
Mmm cowboy thanks so much but we will not be leaving the house for the weekend, haven't seen him un three weeks :) .. the oral on him I have hands down. I think I enjoy them more so hes happy there but Brumboy. Ive never tried the hot drink thing.. that sounds like a plan yay ...
Ive a massage table and a room so im thinking of turning it into a little sex den, im a little nervous because ive never done anything like that before, taking control of him but I really want to, my friend wine might help me haha...
So we're all in agreement .. really good oral, blindfold...some rope, oil's and maybe dress up ?
Ohh my nerves :)
Ive just ordered the icicles glass dildo with leather cat o nine tails .. am so excited but ive no experience with any of that so a little scared ill look like an idiot not knowing what im doing but I really want to learn ...
You guys are great. Thankyou xx
Sex room + that fantastic plan = WINNING
MRS swares by glass so I am sure you will like you new toy.
thankyou , hope it goes to plan and your she is right :) i got my first glass toy last month and i love it ... so could not resist the glass and whip combo , im way too excited :)
Gentle giant wrote:
Hi Lamblicker for me you are over half way there as you want to do this for him, lucky guy.
Start now, build the anticipation. Txt him leave little notes. Tell him how much you are looking forward to it and him.
We did this a a few months back for our wedding anniversary. I love being" edged "or lots of anticipation.so my wife said we were going to abstain for a week. The texts were all on the lines of I hope you are behaving because I want you full to the brim for me to get it all out over the weekend. One txt that really got me going was. She was so wet she had ,had to change her pants twice in the day.
She even spent most of the 2 hour drive asking me what I wanted to do over the weekend. When we arrived she made me wait even longer by saying she was hungry and wanted to eat first.in the restaurant We sat in a quiet corner and she whispered in my ear she had taken her pants off when she had gone to the loo. She kissed me wiped a finger under my nose and across my lips. She had obviously dipped it into her pussy I had to finish my meal with here scent under my nose.
When we got to our room we had planned a photo shoot with some jointly chosen lingerie. This was wonderful to do I had the camera going and a camcorder on a tri pod. It may sound a little strange but my Wife wasn't that confident or able to take the lead much before this. So I had asked her to try and she did and it was thrilling for us both.
After 3 outfits where she had changed out of my sight the last was very revealing crotchless knickers. She then took up more erotic poses. The idea I can look( take photos but not touch). We did some spread shots which were such a turn on. Then she masturbated and used some toys to come ,wow.
Now she really took control. We had a lovely big chair in the room she through the pillows and cushions in front of it. Sitting between my legs with me in the chair. Looked me in the and said" you are not to come until I say you can. I want you leaking precum and sat on that pre orgasm plateau as long as possible". She gave me an all over BJ taking care not to go to fast or hard if she took me in her mouth. After what seemed a long but wonderful time. She lubed me up and switch to HJ. Brought the camcorder in close she wanted to record my orgasm as she wanted to be able to see over and over. She had switched to her hands so she could maintain eye contact and talk to me and kept going slowly when I got close she switched to my balls and arse. I had to stop her twice. Then when she was ready she pumped me hard and fast. Telling me she wanted it now, give it to me, I want to see it pumping out of you now.
Hope this gives you a few ideas. Most of all have a great weekend.
eemmmmmm thankyou gentle giant :) .... THINK i need to go out now and get some air haha, this is great, im gonna take little tips from all the wonderful ideas and come up with a plan of action :))) xx
Northern lights wrote:
The most amasing thing to happen to me in a long while was being tied to a chair. My Oh then stripped to her heels, lace top holdups and started caressing herself. She kissed me and touched me... And that was all. she then lied down on the floor and reached for her favourite toy....
You can fill in the gaps......
She ended up a very messy girl when she allowed me to errr... decorate her...
:) ... Thanks for sharing to Northern lights <3
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Sorry Lamblicker, was I a little graphic, couldn't think of another way to describe most of it. Guess I was also reliving some of it too.
I always wish the wife would say to me on a night out , hey I've got the we vibe in here's the remote ,, lol ... #nevergonnahappen ,mind you ,I could always ask xx
Gentle Giant ... no no no not at all, great advice, its just that its only tuesday and i wont see him till friday , was getting a little excited as my plan is taking shape haha :p
Jeffngloria , i wouldnt mind him doing that but we wont be leaving the house :D
Something to think about planning for the following weekend :))
Gentle giant wrote:
Hi Lamblicker for me you are over half way there as you want to do this for him, lucky guy.
Start now, build the anticipation. Txt him leave little notes. Tell him how much you are looking forward to it and him.
We did this a a few months back for our wedding anniversary. I love being" edged "or lots of anticipation.so my wife said we were going to abstain for a week. The texts were all on the lines of I hope you are behaving because I want you full to the brim for me to get it all out over the weekend. One txt that really got me going was. She was so wet she had ,had to change her pants twice in the day.
She even spent most of the 2 hour drive asking me what I wanted to do over the weekend. When we arrived she made me wait even longer by saying she was hungry and wanted to eat first.in the restaurant We sat in a quiet corner and she whispered in my ear she had taken her pants off when she had gone to the loo. She kissed me wiped a finger under my nose and across my lips. She had obviously dipped it into her pussy I had to finish my meal with here scent under my nose.
When we got to our room we had planned a photo shoot with some jointly chosen lingerie. This was wonderful to do I had the camera going and a camcorder on a tri pod. It may sound a little strange but my Wife wasn't that confident or able to take the lead much before this. So I had asked her to try and she did and it was thrilling for us both.
After 3 outfits where she had changed out of my sight the last was very revealing crotchless knickers. She then took up more erotic poses. The idea I can look( take photos but not touch). We did some spread shots which were such a turn on. Then she masturbated and used some toys to come ,wow.
Now she really took control. We had a lovely big chair in the room she through the pillows and cushions in front of it. Sitting between my legs with me in the chair. Looked me in the and said" you are not to come until I say you can. I want you leaking precum and sat on that pre orgasm plateau as long as possible". She gave me an all over BJ taking care not to go to fast or hard if she took me in her mouth. After what seemed a long but wonderful time. She lubed me up and switch to HJ. Brought the camcorder in close she wanted to record my orgasm as she wanted to be able to see over and over. She had switched to her hands so she could maintain eye contact and talk to me and kept going slowly when I got close she switched to my balls and arse. I had to stop her twice. Then when she was ready she pumped me hard and fast. Telling me she wanted it now, give it to me, I want to see it pumping out of you now.
Hope this gives you a few ideas. Most of all have a great weekend.
It is our 30th Anniversary next month and this has given me so many ideas GG; thank you
Ok well in some ways this gives that great chance to start building up the anticipation long distance Via txt or email. We chaps can't help but love explicit descriptions. For you ladies it's dirty talk or naughty, for us guys it really does fire our imagination. Feed his mind and try and draw out of him his inner most desires. Remember he maybe a little embarrassed buy your forwardness, this is very easily turned into sexual arousal. Just look at all the old literature and films. The heroin is oozing sex appeal saying come on you can have me put the little cameo of a tease and flirting before the main dish is servedd is timeless. Because it works ,its millennia old. Be bold end enjoy the feminine power you can wield.
Hi GG .,... hummm iam running all the wonderful ideas through my bold little mind .. i cant wait :)))) and will read back everything before he arrives...think we could need a full two weeks to get through and test out all the love honey stuff we have got in the past few weeks.... damn sales, ill be homeless at this rate but well stocked atleast :p
Cap 13 ... i know :)))) great advice :)))
Capricorn you are most welcome don't you just love these forums. Where else or with whom could you share such ideas or thoughts. Safe in the knowledge that our blushes are spared but the ideas come from real people in real relationships. I have even thought that teenagers could learn a lot about sex and relationships. Rather than taking a look at porn for guidance.
Agreed GG; so many forum members take the time to offer great advice, share ideas and provide support. Teenagers could certainly learn a lot; hopefully that the most important thing is to communicate honestly with your partner.
GG and Cap13
Totatly agreed.... These forum's are really amazing and everyone is so lovely and willing to help and share their knowledge. .. I just can't believe that I didn't know places like this existed before now. ..
Thanks again everyone. ..
Roll on the weekend ♥
Hope you both have a fabulous time, LL.
Lamblicker how is the anticipation coming along? I hope you have an amazing weekend.I am so excited for you, God that sounds crass but I mean it.