Personally, I think curvy women look beautiful, I don’t think there’s a reason for it, it’s just what I find attractive. Confidence goes a long way too, I’m attracted to confidence in any gender and it’s more important than size or appearance in general. Having said all that, I’m a pear shaped curvy size 12 - 16 and feel very self conscious especially my belly and bum. Maybe I need to be kinder to myself somehow.
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Obviously personality is paramount, but for initial attraction it’s the curves, i just love big thighs, ass, and boobs, both to look at and to hold, fondle and caress. Simple as that!
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Curves = slapping sounds
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This is true, I did body combat the other day and when I was doing jabs my side wobble was clapping 
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Definitely, be kind to yourself, you deserve it
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Confidence!! Hands down, a woman who thinks and knows she’s sexy… Is sexy!!
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So I am not sexually attracted to bigger people, including men. I don’t think it is a stereotype, I just don’t see larger people sexually attractive.
Now don’t start hating as she asked what it was or wasn’t that attracted you to or didn’t attract you to a larger person. I don’t think I could put a finger on it - I don’t find them unattractive, I just never get all googly-eyed over a heavy woman.
I think it’s like a certain race of people. To the eye, there is something about them that you find appealing and either does it for you or doesn’t. For example, my brother in law was married to a tiny bubbly skinny girl and hated her. They divorced and it came to light that he always wanted to be with Asian women. Now I don’t see the attraction that he does, but he married exactly what he wanted and is super happy. I personally don’t find Asians attractive, but he does…so to each their own.
Again, it’s not a stereotype or hate/love thing. I think it’s in the eye and I agree that personality has alot to do with it.
We are all individuals and are allowed to love who we want and have tastes in people much like food. So it’s a great question… great post!
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I don’t know why, I just am, I am a XXL though and always have been on the bigger side. There’s just something a like about a larger lady with curves in all the right places!
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We have been watching the naked attraction on TV, not the dating one… the two spin off episodes which is addressing stereotypes/Porn expectations and different bodies etc
So a question as we know many guys and some women who spend hours in the gym , eating habits which literally are complete ways of life to achieve a perfect body. Firstly to feel good…. Which I get and secondly for their partners and I guess an element of feeling good.
We are not that couple, we eat well …. Most days but also do the takeaways and drives thro and enjoy life 
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But the question is do you lust for the muscular and toned guy or do you prefer the dad bod , little bit of love handle and not rock solid stomach and huge guns 
…… or is this all just social influence and actually not what people are finding attractive.
Do you want the SUPER flexible and slim yoga 
wife all over instagram these days 
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Interested in the real truth and views
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Like you im a size 22 and ive been with my hubby since i was 18. I was a little smaller when i met him (about a size 16 i think looking at pics). He has never had an issue with my size but i was insecure for years knowing that his ex partners were a lot smaller. Hes always maintained that yes, they are smaller but its my personality and qualities that attracted him and that he prefers my body.
I think there are is still some taboo around larger women but not as much as there once was.
Confidence and kindness and a sense of humour play a huge role in attractiveness.
I had a very open conversation with my eldest son about real women and what he finds attractive a little while ago. He hit the nail on the head. He said at first glance he finds slimmer girls more attractive if he was going on looks alone but when it come to a relationship, looks are irrelevant. Its about personality. Hes an athlete and said that he wouldnt have an issue with being with a bigger person with a great personality as long as they looked after themselves in regards to food and exercise etc. I have PCOS and alot of my weight is down to this but i eat healthily and i exercise regularly. I think this has set him up with good knowledge that weight isnt always down to someone just sitting and eating cake all day.
At the end of the day though, when it comes to physical attraction alone everyone is different and likes different things. Some like small and some like big. Some like blondes and some like brunettes. Some like beards, and some dont… you get the picture. If you put 10 women in a room together and showed pictures of men, i would bet money that they would all have different opinions. Thats what makes us individual.
Sorry… ive just realised that im rambling 
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I prefer job built muscles with a layer of softness. Both my exes had tummies and softness. Current sexual partner is slim and muscular with a bit of softness. I like some softness.
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Well @Daisy1982 i’m not a dad and will never be one now at age 61 but do have the dad bod. Wife seems to like it although we both feel like we should loose a bit of weight for health reasons.
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I adore bigger woman but I think it’s more because I love curves and adore boobs, belly & bum.
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I have to say i prefer bigger in general but I have to be honest that my choices in the other topic “Shag… Marry…. Fuck off , I’m washing my hair!” Did not include a larger woman. I dont think anyone elses did either. Maybe Nigella could be classed as a little larger ??
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Personally I love the feel of the abundant flesh especially around the hips. I like the feeling of size when holding a large woman in my arms. Still gotta have a good feminine shape though.
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I think so too mate. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t always practice what I preach though. I maybe should start.
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What is a good feminine shape that a female must have for you?
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Some curve at the hips, big butt and thighs. Generally I like a lady a bit heavier from the waist down.
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It’s almost impossible to answer. I love bigger women 
, and lovehoney deserve huge respect for using models of all shapes and sizes .
Why do I love bigger women ? I honesty don’t know . We all have our preferences . Maybe we over analyse too much ?
Like what you like , and enjoy 
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@natrat_1991 . If a larger woman also has the larger personality, thats a big part of the attraction. Im not a waif fan i might add.
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