What's your thoughts on solo time? How often do you touch yourself in a week?

A few times a week, but a lot more during these past few months! ![](upload://5BDs2y1gm13l2R58ovmAMxyNM3f.gif)

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Usually five or six times a week - as well as making love.

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hagions wrote:

Looking at the reviews so far looks like it's normal enough to play solo ...... Think the OH is too shy to say she does do it..... Maybe she doesn't do it, but looking at the above quotes it seems normal enough for both genders....

There's no such thing as normal when it comes to sexual preference. People who don't want/need to masturbate aren't abnormal.

Personally, I average two wanks a day in addition to sex. Not quite sure how I manage to fit that into a busy day!

My wife is also very coy when it comes to discussing her masturbation. She's perfectly happy to talk about how often I whack off. I get the impression she does it solo once a month or so, but she's welcome to privacy on the matter. :)

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Iā€™d say most days, sometimes I do myself while lying in bed with my wife. Itā€™s nice when she decides I need a bit of help or while I play she adds that extra buy playing with my balls and a wee anal rub is amazing.

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I think about it all the time, but rarely get the chance, probably once a fortnight.

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Whenever I feel like it , which is pretty much everyday. I find it helps me sleep better :sleeping:

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I run my hands across my body many times a day . Some times just a quick caress , some times rather extensive . In winter time both caressing myself and masterbating taper off a good deal . I will masterbate up to five times a week during the summer . I am 100% DIY , as the wife has near zero interest . I have also read that for men to have a healthy prostrate , you need to orgasm often . At my age of 62 I still have good sex drive and even though much of body wore out I still work hard and play hard . So many guys I know my age and younger are on testosterone treatments . I credit self play with keeping me healthy .

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Most days for me. My wife knows that too. Sometimes during foreplay with her, she likes me to tell her how often Iā€™ve done it and what porn Iā€™ve watched. Quite often lately, sheā€™s asked to watch me.

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Personally it varies A LOT but I am on antidepressants. It can be anywhere between twice a month and 5 times a day, multiple days in a row, haha!

I think that masturbating is natural, even if one has a very satisfying sex life with their partner.

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Thanks Alicia, very kind. I just try and pick a time when itā€™s just me.

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It all depends if the oh is working but I usually have sole time 2 a week

Single but morning, afternoon and night for me please!

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I would say atleast every other day. Obviously while I was home over lockdown and my husband was working, it was several times a day at one point :smile::woman_facepalming:t3:

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Itā€™s an interesting one; when single, or dating and living alone I think I tend to have more solo time, but if living with someone I tend to less as Iā€™d rather they be involved when Iā€™m in the mood. Though living apart through lockdown certainly makes solo time more regular!

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Daily here :man_facepalming: Twice daily sometimes
Is this excessive??

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Noā€¦ @Chosen-one youā€™re just playing with the best toy you ever hadā€¦ itā€™s always there and you canā€™t lose the bits eitherā€¦:rofl:

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@CurvyJilly I like itā€¦ unfortunately it is the only male toy I have Pam and her 5 sisters as the old saying goes. Perhaps I need to get a male toy specifically for me

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daily if i can - and a bonus if i have time with my fleshlight

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Four or five times a week for me

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I like to masturbate once a fortnight, maybe even once a week if Iā€™m really horny. I love sex with my husband but I really enjoy exploring myself and having some peaceful, naughty solo time to use my toys and think about my fantasies.

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