I have recently gone through a break up, we collectively brought alot of things from Love Honey. Some were gifts to me, wrapped up etc. Including the amazing lelo Wand.
90% of the toys and bondage items are with him .... he says he is keeping them! Is this ok? I am a little perplexed as firstly most of them were gfts to me, seconadly they are tous we disscussed and chose together.
This is not as staright forward as it seems, he is a paraplygic, Paralysed from the chest down, he can get a errection with vaiagra; but this is not always gaurenteed. I am the first woman he has slept with since his injury. I feel we went on this speial journey together, he admits he was very very vanila before meeting me, this includes prior to his accident. We experimented with different ways to arouse and stimulate him ( as obviously he can not feel anything bellow his chest), and different ways for him to please me.
I asked; after he split with me. what he is going to do with the toys, i would like my gifts back. he said NO he is keeping them. I said any woman would find it odd to enter a relationship with you and discover strapons, wands, hog ties, leashes and much more .... he said, i dont think they will as I am a paraplygic, I have no quarms with using these toys on another woman in the future.
This really hurt! Partly as i want a few of those toys back for my own pleasure! .... but also that was a journey we went on together.
Am I wrong to think the toys should come back to me for my personal use, or put in the bin? Is it ok to keep the toys i wnted us to use and introduced to him on other women?