Recent research reinforces the view that frequent ejeculation is good for prostate health.
A detailed study appeared in a recent article in the Journal of European Urology http://www.europeanurology.com/article/S0302-2838%2861%2900377-8/fulltext
This story was reported in a number of newspapers and also by the NHS http://www.nhs.uk/news/2017/07July/Pages/Frequent-ejaculation-may-decrease-prostate-cancer-risk.aspx
The advice can be summarised as: "Ejaculating at least 21 times a month significantly reduces a man's risk of prostate cancer"
For most men, even if they are married or in a relationship, this will require masturbating roughly every other day. I don't really want to tell my wife every other day that I am going upstairs to masurbate so my question is - where do married men find somewhere comfortable where they can masturbate without being disturbed?
In the bathroom or bedroom, mostly, but I have to wait for my wife to be away for long enough for me to clean up and hide toys. Nowadays it's 2 or 3 in the morning once everyone's asleep as she doesn't 'get' masturbation (handjobs are a no-no) and I doubt I could swing the 'looking after my prostate' argument!
21 times a month? Once a fortnight, if I'm lucky...
My OH more often than not wakes me up every morning having a wank which, if I am not tired will then lead to sex. If I cant be bothered I pretend to still be asleep!! As long as I know what he is up to I don't mind, he used to get up and go straight downstairs and do it in the kitchen ( we have a massive kitchen/dining room with tv) so would sit and do it without me knowing, but now he just does it next to me as he knows he will probably get it as well 😉 reading that on the he news was his excuse for doing it all the time!
Wherever iv got quick access to kitchen roll/loo roll. Otherwise I can't be bothered, even when I'm horny because ejaculating into my pants just isn't worth the hassle.
I dont think I could hit 21 times in a month, more than 3-4 in a week and I'm struggling to get there regardless of the stimulation, 2 days in a row can be challenging but doable, but I highly doubt more than that now.
As for where, shower / bed / lounge but depends on whos home, what time of day it is etc
Usually the bathroom as the lock on the door stops any awkwardness, a few of my mates have been caught cock handed in front of the computer haha. Strange as I'll happily play in front of my partner but shudder at the idea of being caught in the act!
Anywhere inside or outside the house, and it doesn't matter if the OH is about, she loves to watch me and even if she comes in and catches me having a quick tug, usually she'll watch till I've cum and then she likes to clean me off and makes sure I have taste it.