A conversation today with a work colleague prompted this question.
She has a new boyfriend and told me she is fed up of guiding him inside. She thought he was either lazy or inexperienced. All she wants is a guy who plunges it in. 
I told her with my guy it depends upon the position eg if Iām on all fours he pushes it in, however if Iām on my back then I usually reach for him and guide him to me.
What do you do?
Same really, total depends on position but also mood too I guess, especially if he is teasing me and I canāt take no more and need it in me there and then, but then there is also times when he tells me to put it in as he does like for me to do it, but most of the time I would say Mr 0 will take control of it so to speak.
In missionary my wife guides me in 95% of the time: is not pleasant for either of us to bump around if Iām not lined up on the first shot and weāve been together for 20 years so itās no mystery lost to help out logistically. The other 5% of the time is either because sheās bound or weāre further along an extended session and the path is already very cleared out warmed up, so to speak.
And as for other positions, most things rear entry I do just fine on my own (other than she sometimes spreads her cheeks for me, out some spooning situations sheāll spread her lips and help nudge it in) and anything where sheās on top of course sheās in charge.
I donāt think Iāve ever thought of it to be honest. Most of the time itās probably me, likely because just before I put it in Iām touching her with my hands anyway - itās not often I go straight in (so to speak). I sometimes also like to tease a little first.
Now I think about it, when I do slip out itās mostly her who puts it back inā¦ when sheās not in some bondage, or course.
Either of us really, heās usually teasing and moving away or pulling back just enough to just graze me while Iām trying to slurp him inside lol
Probably 50/50. Look, Iām a woman who goes after what she wants and if heās gonna tease Iām gonna take, yāknow? Lol.
Think every guy enjoys being guided in but on the flip side I enjoy teasing, gently sliding my tip in and out to tease. Feeling how wet itās getting is always a good feeling
Sometimes my oh guides and sometimes I do.
I think these things are best settled with conversation. For me, I donāt think I have a prefence. Although I do sometimes worry about slipping out during reverse cowgirl and breaking my dick lol
It depends on the position, if it is vanilla missionary position then the OH usually guides me into her pussy, we normally laugh about how poor my aim is and we wouldnāt want it āaccidentallyā slipping into the wrong hole. 
Good grief, guiding him in during piv has to mean heās lazy or inexperienced?! I find it sexy when my OH does it ā¦ if youāre āfed upā with something so insignificant, I think itās time to check yourself.
ā¦ or as others suggested, she could talk to the guy about it instead of talking about him like that to a work colleague. 
In our relationship the only penetration that takes place is her pegging me.
Anyone whoās tried penetration using a dildo will know that itās not easy as you canāt feel anything from the dildo itself so initially I used to guide it into me to help her. Nowadays sheās so good at it that all I need to do is to allow her access and she can hit the spot every time.
Depends what hole theyāre aiming for as some can find it tricky to locate and end up with them just poking their willy around until it hits in 
My OH mostly guides me in but mainly because weāre too larger people and itās hard to aim for me being only of average size
I guess in one regard I am a little traditional. Never thought of myself as traditional until this topic got bounced up. I decide what goes in where. LOL
Perfect answer. There are times Iāll hold his penis - him on top - and put it in. But, other tones heāll just enter me - regardless of position and weāll go at it. Thereās no him or me answer
Mostly me, sometimes her. I guess the position she helps the most is when sheās on top.
Itās me who decides on penetration- I generally use my strap on to penetrate him - but sometimes I just feel I need him inside me