I would love some help or tips recently single and would like to be able to pleasure myself but never really able to get myself excited that much would love if anyone out there could give me tips or advise
Ok you haven’t specified Whether you have a penis or a vulva so this will be a bit generic.
Have you ever masturbated with your hands? I would recommend getting to know your body with your own touch first to get an idea of what you like and where you like it.
After that look at some toys. If you can afford to do so, I would suggest buying a small selection of toys that do different things. Don’t spend a lot of each toy £10-20 per toy is enough to give you an idea. Yes there are lots of amazing sex toys out there at higher costs, but until you know what you like it may be a waste of money. Don’t worry too much about whether a toy is listed as male or female, as many toys can be unisex (some obviously aren’t, like penis sleeves, and please don’t stick anything up your butt that doesn’t have a flared based or retrieval loop)
take your time exploring yourself. Don’t try and masturbate in the 10 minutes you have between tasks or people coming home. Consider doing nice relaxing things, like having a bath or pampering yourself. Get yourself in the mood with erotica or porn
don’t put too much stress on yourself. Just enjoy having you time