My OH says since meeting me hes 33 he hardly wanks as he enjoys being in me rather than a hand and i give him what he needs to which I say is bollocks but he says he doesnt. However when hes away with work I tease him more and we sext alot which is fun & we send pictures back and forward . But he says he perfers not to wank each to their own not going to force him to wank. I probably wank more than he does hes not bothered .